Even if a woman wants to come over on the first date most will say they are uncomfortable coming over because they don't really know you yet. How do you bypass their defense and get them to come through to the crib the first time?
How do you get women to come over your place on the First Date?
- Thread starter Jahmal
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Drag that bytch to your house. fukk the games.
Drag that bytch to your house. fukk the games.
Thats a last resort
Gunshi
Reboot Coming…
its simple... show her a very good time makin her put her guard down and she wont want it to end.
But I dont want to spend any money. The holidays are taking a toll on my bank account.
You make her comfortable enough. There's no "go -to" move or word. Just gotta make her feel safe enough to let her guard down so she can let her panties down. For what it's worth when trying to take her back home after being out, just casually bring your house or apt into a conversation where you can have the option of saying some shyt like "oh you should see it" or "Maybe next time we'll pass by my place before or afterwards."
I'm high as a kite so you might have to excuse my train of thought at the moment but trust me just make her feel comfortable that's all it is.
I'm high as a kite so you might have to excuse my train of thought at the moment but trust me just make her feel comfortable that's all it is.
Gunshi
Reboot Coming…
lol, no one said money = good time.....
beezy
Old Member
you have to have a "reason" to go back to the cribitz. aka, during the date, mention something you have or just bought, then tell her you wanna show it to her 
or you can say you forgot something or need to grab whatever, and invite her in, offer a drink, ask to chill, you know.. to add comfort, say you got somethin to do later or work in the morning so it can only be for a lil bit.. 
they dont wanna feel like a ho for comin over knowing its just for sex.. but if one thing led to another, and it was "outta their control", then its ok
or you can say you forgot something or need to grab whatever, and invite her in, offer a drink, ask to chill, you know.. to add comfort, say you got somethin to do later or work in the morning so it can only be for a lil bit.. they dont wanna feel like a ho for comin over knowing its just for sex.. but if one thing led to another, and it was "outta their control", then its ok
Born2BKing
Veteran
I wouldn't try that at all. I'd wait until she was completely comfortable with me before I invited her over. Don't want to make her feel intimidated. 
#easyonhoes
#easyonhoes
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
the first date should be at your crib, offer she come over and yall cook dinner together as a date,Recession Dating breh
CJ
Your objective semi-troll
Don't know what rapport or comfort level you are at with her already but if something has been established then be straight, no lame excuses, or trickery to get her to come by.
Say you'd like to have her over for some wine and dinner, maybe even order in. That you guys can just relax and watch a movie she hasn't seen or just talk and get to know each other better. Assuming you're not actually trying to just hit it, tell her that it isn't your actual intention, and is not the reason for you inviting her over - atleast it's out there and understood.
Say you'd like to have her over for some wine and dinner, maybe even order in. That you guys can just relax and watch a movie she hasn't seen or just talk and get to know each other better. Assuming you're not actually trying to just hit it, tell her that it isn't your actual intention, and is not the reason for you inviting her over - atleast it's out there and understood.
But going out will costs money. Its too cold to be walking outside at a park right now. i've got to pay for gas. I may have to pay for parking. Most women want to meet up for drinks/dinner. All that sh1t costs money B.
posterchild336
Superstar
If they are not comfortable enough to come over initially have them get a drink/eat at a place close to your house then after you talk tell her you live close by ..If she is feelin you she will come with ease if you invite her..
Thank me later
Thank me later
I wouldn't try that at all. I'd wait until she was completely comfortable with me before I invited her over. Don't want to make her feel intimidated.
#easyonhoes
sorry breh but i cant subscribe to the easyonhoes movement. I dont want to be the simp taking a woman out for 3 months just to find out that everyone else had smashed within a week.