How do you handle rejection?

[FukYaFeelings]

Got rejected 2 times last night...bunch of hoes was here for homecoming.


Wasnt too bad...I just hit em with the "can i talk to u right quick?" and they looked and kept walking and I just kept walking and laughed it off.


Its better than them giving me their number, me coming on thecoli like "i just got the bad bit number brehs " and then they playing games thru text.

 

[SheWantTheD]

A chick I don't really know? Keep it moving. A chick I got a number from but no reply? Keep it moving.

A chick I've been dating for months? Keep it moving (might take some time for me to get over her, might send her a text or two once a week saying I miss her)

Can't force anyone to want to be with me

Getting rejected by a chick you don't know is nothing. You get over it within a day if it even bothers you. A chick you've been dating for months, been in a relationship with etc you just take it day by day. Listen to love songs, songs about how she ain't shyt and fukk her, etc. If there's no closure you think about how and why it didn't last a million times plus one.

A lot of people date other people to get over their exes but nah not me, I think that's unfair to the new person.

It's probably best to take the emotions out of it and look at the situation logically. Did the person really respect you, treated you well, etc? If not, then use that to not be clouded by the good times.

 

[4fossa]

Aproaching more girls

 

[semicko82]

It's easy. There are over 6 billion people in the world and roughly half of them are women. Why the fukk would I sit around and pout over getting rejected by one girl? To be real, her p*ssy was probably wack. If it's not, chances are I'd be tired of her after a few months and I'd be ready to upgrade anyway. I just walk away from rejection with a smile because most likely, she probably did me a favor.

This! Once your ego gets over being rejected then you figure out that person is no one special. Never put anyone on a pedestal.

 

[marcuz]

listen to kent vids

 

[Born2BKing]

I just get my loc dog on. Surprisingly, I haven't been rejected since.

 

[Bless't]

A chick I don't really know? Keep it moving. A chick I got a number from but no reply? Keep it moving.

A chick I've been dating for months? Keep it moving (might take some time for me to get over her, might send her a text or two once a week saying I miss her)

Can't force anyone to want to be with me

Getting rejected by a chick you don't know is nothing. You get over it within a day if it even bothers you. A chick you've been dating for months, been in a relationship with etc you just take it day by day. Listen to love songs, songs about how she ain't shyt and fukk her, etc. If there's no closure you think about how and why it didn't last a million times plus one.

A lot of people date other people to get over their exes but nah not me, I think that's unfair to the new person.

It's probably best to take the emotions out of it and look at the situation logically. Did the person really respect you, treated you well, etc? If not, then use that to not be clouded by the good times.

Good post. I completely agree with the bold. You have to emotionally process and let time do its thing before pursuing someone else. I used to jump from one to the other. As I've gotten older I've definitely learned to not do that anymore.

 

[SheWantTheD]

Good post. I completely agree with the bold. You have to emotionally process and let time do its thing before pursuing someone else. I used to jump from one to the other. As I've gotten older I've definitely learned to not do that anymore.

Real talk and often times you accept anyone because you are desperate for attention, an emotional connection etc and you also might look for someone who is similar to your ex.

 

[AAKing23]

I can't remember the last time I've been rejected.

Then again, I can't remember the last time I've approached a woman.

This.


I don't even put myself in the position to be rejected

 

[Sauce Dab]

Me: can I take you out some time?
Her: not really interested

Me:

But on the inside I'm lowkey

 

[Kex]

I feel like way too many people limit their options when they are just in the talking phase. If you still at the point where you can get rejected you should still have other people on deck. Stop putting all your eggs in one basket until y'all actually make it official

 

[全能の神]

First and only time I was rejected by someone I really liked, I cried













Only for a week though

 

[EARFQUAKE]

 

[BaldingSoHard]

I live close to two different Popeye's so nothing really keeps me down for long.

 

[G.O.A.T Squad Spokesman]

I plan on getting rejected at least 12 times this weekend. If I don't then I was either lucky or didn't give enough effort but I'm putting up the attempts