How do you handle when People Test/Try You?

[hostsamurai]

Stubborn, but not unreasonable. You want to test me... very well... but to bully me? When I attack, I frighten even myself

I remember one time in Year 10 my friend was stunting because of his new blazer. Then he was clowning on me for something that I took offense to. So naturally, I threatened to dash some vanilla Yazoo on him. Then he called me out as a p*ssy. As a man I simply could not abide it.

So yeah. I did it. I threw just a little bit, but it ended up being half the bottle and I ran away, becoming the hide and seek champion for the rest of the day.


But other than that if I don't consider a person has value like that I'll just smile and go about my day. It's not like they pay my bills.

 

[Pazzy]

When I was younger, I would have been about doing something or blowing up on somebody. Now, I don't put myself in the position to be tried.

 

[1-8-7-Skillz]

If I feel like somebody is trying me I’ll try to provoke them and see how they react just to see if it’s real or not, most of the time people just wanna see how far they can go before you’ll say something, if you hold your nuts on them they’ll usually back down from my experience

This.
Most of the people that wanna act super hard arent gonna do anything.
A couple months ago I was at a party with a couple homies and theres this one dude who always acts an absolute ass, talking dumb shyt to everyone and wanna come off as super hard/i‘ll fukk you up blablabla. Dude NEVER does anything tho, my homie tried to see how far he can go and literally roasted the hell out of this guy and he did absolutely nothing but act like a bytch

 

[Jasonmask]

I’m good with words I know how to son a person fast.

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

Its all ego that mf dont mean shyt and if it dont matter in 3 days it dont mea shyt



That being said you can play yourselfn

 

[Bumblebreh]

Its all ego that mf dont mean shyt and if it dont matter in 3 days it dont mea shyt



That being said you can play yourselfn

you have young men who are either dead or i prison due to having an ego.

 

[Brolic Scholar]

It depends on who it is. If it’s a rude person on the job, I usually ask them to repeat themselves. Forcing someone try to get courageous multiple times usually reminds them that little second of frustration isn’t worth an ass whoopin. If they keep it going I get quiet and my look tells them what time it is. I’m not about to vocalize a threat.

Outside of situations where people don’t feel protected, I don’t really get tested. I don’t look soft and I’m 6’2” and solid. I had a car full of Mexican dudes try me recently while they passed me while I was stopped on a narrow street. I went to my glove box and my girl grabbed my hand. She knew I was about to light them up. They stopped in front of me with their backs to me and one dude opened the door like he was about to get out.

 

[bucks3115]

I just dnt mind it
They aint worth my time

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I am the queen of 'I wish somebody' would. I have several ways I handle it depending on the situation. If they are White I do that 'play the victom' thing they love so much. The last time a Cac tried me was when I was in Queens. To make a long story short we were at this busy event and this she hulk said she was gonna push me. Oh baby it was on. I starting making a scene just repeating over and over that she threaten to do bodily harm to me. :funny: She went from to . She got so nervous. "I'm not gonna hurt you. I'm not gonna touch you etc" Calmed her ass right the fukk down.

My friend recently told me "You're so mean but you're smart so you figure out says to fukk with people so they can't do anything about it."

If it is someone I care about and they make a slick comment I usually find away to turn the comment around on them. Once I was hanging with a friend and his younger brother. The brother was facetiming so young chick. The friend says "Is that how you looked when you were younger?" I gave him the then I pointed to his brother and said"Is that how you looked when you were younger." Brother hit the and that was the last time he made a joke like that. lol

 

[Rollo Goodlove]

you have young men who are either dead or i prison due to having an ego.

Thats mental illness im not finna do no dumb shyt for a name. But if i get blatanly disrespected i gotta check it

 

[CoryMack]

I don’t really get tried.

Must be because my very essence bespeaks Lionheartedness.

 

[god shamgod]

I have more self control now than I did when I was younger, when I was young I resorted to violence too much

now depending how I'm tested determines how I'll react, if you flat out try to disrespect me it will get ugly.Anything else I probably won't care

 

[Clayton Endicott]

You asking to get hurt

This. I'll let somebody yap all day, but if they invade my personal space they getting dropped. I do NOT play that shyt.

 

[eastsideTT]

If it's not an extreme violation or threat to the safety of me or anyone close to me than I don't care

Grown people who take everything personal are people I want nothing to do with. Imagine how much better the world would be if people took themselves and their ego out of the situation and realized that 99% of the time whatever happens has nothing to do with them personally. I'm getting passive aggressive shyt tests from a girl or even worse, a guy, I just write them off as small, miserable people..and I don't let those types of people get remotely close to my wheelhouse at all

 

[TransJenner]

Just don’t entertain it , it’s a waste of energy and time