How do you handle when People Test/Try You?

Clayton Endicott

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I just ignore nikkas and cut em off.

Im too old for that shyt.

Not worth an assualt charge and losing my 6 figure salary or freedom.

I dont let nikkas take me out my element.

I play it cool and just dead nikkas.

But im in this cut throat ass corporate world and its snakes all over....but i just play the silent/quiet role and mind my business.
This is what kept me from putting this punk at work through one of the tables. I even told breh I have a lot more to lose than him and that he wasn't worth losing my job. Then he proceeds to tell me to pull up somewhere outside of work :stopitslime:
This dude is built like a mop handle; I'm talking inverted chest skinny. I'm 6'5 and even though I got a little soft in the middle, I'm still built enough to have the ladies like:shaq: and dudes like :whoa: when they step over that line. I could already see myself in jail for seriously hurting this dude.

Dude had nerve enough to want to eyeball me for a few days afterwards. Dude's whole disposition is moist, so him trying to be tough is actually funny :heh: . He's the type of dude that would pop shyt in the joint but then scream for the guard when it's time to get down. fukked up thing is now some of the brehs I was cool with before his bytch ass came to our area now give me the side eye like I'm the one that fukked up despite him being a habitual line stepper. All this stemmed from me finally checking him after months of him saying slick shyt and finally invading my space. Just proves that a lot of dudes out there are bytch made, and not every brother is your brother :francis:
 

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This is what kept me from putting this punk at work through one of the tables. I even told breh I have a lot more to lose than him and that he wasn't worth losing my job. Then he proceeds to tell me to pull up somewhere outside of work :stopitslime:
This dude is built like a mop handle; I'm talking inverted chest skinny. I'm 6'5 and even though I got a little soft in the middle, I'm still built enough to have the ladies like:shaq: and dudes like :whoa: when they step over that line. I could already see myself in jail for seriously hurting this dude.

Dude had nerve enough to want to eyeball me for a few days afterwards. Dude's whole disposition is moist, so him trying to be tough is actually funny :heh: . He's the type of dude that would pop shyt in the joint but then scream for the guard when it's time to get down. fukked up thing is now some of the brehs I was cool with before his bytch ass came to our area now give me the side eye like I'm the one that fukked up despite him being a habitual line stepper. All this stemmed from me finally checking him after months of him saying slick shyt and finally invading my space. Just proves that a lot of dudes out there are bytch made, and not every brother is your brother :francis:


Ignore them.

Once you get a new job nobody at your old job will probably matter anymore.

I don't remember 75% of my old coworkers
 

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Depends on my mood and surroundings. I will usually speak in a firm but friendly tone. I'm nice with my hands, I don't want jail time. It's not worth it unless I'm attacked.
 

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I tell them straight up so it doesn't go any further. being black, people think they can just do whatever they want with no push back.
really? I thought all white folk are scared of black people thats why they only set trip in numbers or shoot us
 

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I'm 6'1 225 built like a damn rb/linebacker

Never really get tried, im praying for a day a cac tries me though :demonic:
 

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Was just telling my folks about this. No matter how coo you are with people they're going to try you....especially if you're nice. I don't think I've ever met a person that didn't take my kindness for weakness at some point if I was around them long enough.

When it happens you gotta check them immediately.
 

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If people try and test you, you automatically gotta come down on them hard. Especially women. You really don't wanna be the guy getting shyt from a female. As for the fellas, same goes. Even if it means having to throw hands. You gotta stay top soil at all times.

this. Before quarantine some dude was testing me at a bar I frequent and got in my face. I told him to back off he didn’t listen. So I straight up punched him and we threw hands but dude didn’t know how to fight for shyt. I broke my hand from punching him in the face etc and when people found out they looked at me differently. “Wait... you fight? :picard::dwillhuh::gucci::skip:“ like the women at work whole demeanor changed “oh we gonna go to the club and he gonna protect us :pachaha::ufdup::ohlawd::ooh::youngsabo::salute:“ like no the hell im not. :heh:
 

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If I feel like somebody is trying me I’ll try to provoke them and see how they react just to see if it’s real or not, most of the time people just wanna see how far they can go before you’ll say something, if you hold your nuts on them they’ll usually back down from my experience

THIS. Majority of people are not trying to get in a fist fight. I do the same thing.
 
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