How do you keep your head up when it seems like everyone doing good but you?

[Tres Chic]

I'm going through a bit of a rough patch right now and it's that much harder when it seems like everyone else is eatin' good. I try to be happy for them but I can't deny the very human emotion of envy and disappointment at times.

how do you stay positive?

 

[Ray Jesus]

what are you going through specifically????

 

[Tres Chic]

what are you going through specifically????

Different things, but I would say the main thing right now is unemployment.

 

[Chris.B]

Have you looked into ways of making your self more attractive to potential employers?

Do you have revealing tats? Dreads? all of that has to go

 

[Nemesis]

I'm going through a bit of a rough patch right now and it's that much harder when it seems like everyone else is eatin' good. I try to be happy for them but I can't deny the very human emotion of envy and disappointment at times.

how do you stay positive?

A lot of people are not doing as well as they are making out...its all about perception

No situation is permanent...life has its ups and downs...like you said its just a patch...

 

[Auger]

How do you know that those "others" aren't struggling in other areas that may not appear on the surface?

 

[marcuz]

in before folks start talking bout sell ya p*ssy

 

[neko_804]

Hang out with homeless, it should pick up your spirits and make you appreciate your current space, and also motivate you.

 

[RandomRN86]

Remember that your worst day is someones best...



You'll get through it.

 

[Gunshi]

BACKPAGE..... 1 client a day = $200 and if you good they will tip.. so for the whole week you making $1400 tax free.......

 

[Tres Chic]

Have you looked into ways of making your self more attractive to potential employers?

Do you have revealing tats? Dreads? all of that has to go

Yes I have exhausted a lot of my options, I'm thinking of just going back to school at this point, a bachelors doesn't hold much weight

 

[Chris.B]

Yes I have exhausted a lot of my options, I'm thinking of just going back to school at this point, a bachelors doesn't hold much weight

What industry are you in?

You may have to take a minimum wage job till you get on your feet....

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Log off Facebook, for starters. It's not real. People flaunt too much in an attempt to make you feel inferior. That's *exactly* what's happening here. Log off that shyt and focus on what's making you unhappy. It's important, though, that you take it one problem at a time because if you try to tackle a mountain of shyt at once, you probably won't have the focus or energy to accomplish anything.

 

[kevm3]

Key is to stop worrying and comparing yourself to others. It's a pointless endeavor. Always keep an eye on what you're doing and keep on mashing until you get where you want.

 

[Alec Baldwin]

Try your best to stop comparing yourself to other people. Everybody got problems, don't matter how well they look like they doin in life.

People tend to focus on what the next man doing or got on their plate, don't do that. It's easier said than done, but focus on yourself and push yourself to where you wanna be, whether that shyt is emotionally, financially or whatever.