how do you let go of "ain't shyt" friends with no ambitions?

[TheBeigeBomber]

bunch of internet snake nikkas wont say shyt to him in real life. just on here gossiping about him like a fakkit. why dont you confront him you homo?

 

[KingMalik]

Let go of them...you know what to do

I grew up in the hood, had 8 friends, it was like a fraternity our brotherhood

But I went to college. They didn't. I expanded my world view. They didnt. I got exposed to different things. They didnt. I matured. They didn't. Now I can still rock with a couple of them because they did the right things even if they didn't go to college. One is a store manager now. One runs a youth church program. One does video production. But that's where it stops. Among the other four is a mixtape rapper, a convicted felon for armed robbery, another convicted felon for armed robbery (they were robbing drug stores, restaurants, liquor stores), and a dude who's never been arrested but, runs with known killers and drug dealers. My college friends consists of sons of hedge fund managers, sons of diplomats, sons of entertainment agents, employees at big bulge bracket banks, big four consulting companies and some in silicon valley. What could I possibly talk about with nikkas who been to jail and been running around the hood for the past 5+ years

 

[Remote]

You could just tell him that you ain't really cool with him like that.
Or just stop answering texts/calls.


Or you could go the female route and artificially create a reason to cut him off out of the next insignificant issue that arises.

 

[Flash Thunderton]

I had a few

I run into them sometimes, I hit em with the they hit me with the .


Sometimes he sees me with my girl and does a slight

 

[TheBeigeBomber]

Let go of them...you know what to do

I grew up in the hood, had 8 friends, it was like a fraternity our brotherhood

But I went to college. They didn't. I expanded my world view. They didnt. I got exposed to different things. They didnt. I matured. They didn't. Now I can still rock with a couple of them because they did the right things even if they didn't go to college. One is a store manager now. One runs a youth church program. One does video production. But that's where it stops. Among the other four is a mixtape rapper, a convicted felon for armed robbery, another convicted felon for armed robbery (they were robbing drug stores, restaurants, liquor stores), and a dude who's never been arrested but, runs with known killers and drug dealers. My college friends consists of sons of hedge fund managers, sons of diplomats, sons of entertainment agents, employees at big bulge bracket banks, big four consulting companies and some in silicon valley. What could I possibly talk about with nikkas who been to jail and been running around the hood for the past 5+ years

you sound like a lame. judging people constantly. i dont worry about what other men are doing. i talk to who im speaking too. i dont ask questions about what they been doing

what makes you so uppity that you can judge another man? are you god all of the sudden?

 

[KingMalik]

you sound like a lame. judging people constantly. i dont worry about what other men are doing. i talk to who im speaking too. i dont ask questions about what they been doing

what makes you so uppity that you can judge another man? are you god all of the sudden?

You don't got shyt yet, youngin. Which means you have nothing to lose.

Which is why you don't find anything wrong with hanging with deviants and criminals and people with no life goals.

You sound like a kid.

In about another 5-7 years when you (hopefully) start getting yourself together, you'll feel differently. You'll throw everybody in the bushes before you let them jeopardize everything you worked hard to achieve.

 

[Yogi]

Yeah he gotta go.

You might wanna do it slow. Doing things drastic and fast will probably cause a lot of tension. Slowly not hanging out as much, and when you do talk, you talk about positive goal setting shyt you're trying to do with your life instead of the bullshyt he wants to talk about will be a nice transition. The more you two talk about different things and the less you hang out, the further separation there will be. He won't be as willing to speak to you because you're not on the same agenda as him.

It would seem more mutual and less cut throat.

Yep. You don't really have to put forth any effort, and you will eventually move away from each other. That's exactly what happened with me and a few of my friends. They kept doing and talking about the same shyt that we did in high school, and it got to the point where I felt like I couldn't talk about grown man shyt to them. They are pretty much satisfied with smoking weed and drinking everyday and don't have interest in doing much else. They will always be my nikkas, but we have very little in common now, so we don't even attempt to hang out.

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

You know what i mean. The type of nikka that doesn't motivate you or improve your life in anyway. The type of nikka that never has anything of value to bring to the table. The type of nikka who wastes yr time whenever you chill with him. I've known this dude for 10 years but he just feels like a drag on my life these days. He's still the same person and he had no desire to improve himself. How should i cut him out? I

.......why does he have to improve your life?

 

[Anti-Anime]

bunch of internet snake nikkas wont say shyt to him in real life. just on here gossiping about him like a fakkit. why dont you confront him you homo?

Im not even going to bother with this immature kid man.

 

[Anti-Anime]

.......why does he have to improve your life?

Isn't that what friends are for in some capacity?

 

[NeilCartwright]

I just hate the sneak dissing..Ive got one from the 5th grade. We're still cool but he constantly has an attitude when i mention certain things. He wants me to join the Navy w/him and he hasn't left yet, even though its been 3 yrs since we graduatedHe called me the other day and i mentioned something i read(in a book about ancient egypt of all things) and it was just to mention how they had a pic of one of the indigenous women in it and she had some yams. Soon as i mentioned "book" i heard this nikka suck his teeth. How can you call yourself a man, comfortably live at home, claiming you "getting money" working part time. On snapchat posting all kinds of fukkery. Claiming you "hopping on females" when your moms is down the hall and your grandma sleep

Then they're the same ones who wanna say told you so when something doesn't work out. nikka thats lifeyou fail, but you learn from it....I honestly think its a lack of maurity

 

[iFightSeagullsForBread]

Isn't that what friends are for in some capacity?

To an extent, but shouldn't you return or offer the favor.

 

[Dirty Mcdrawz]

Isn't that what friends are for in some capacity?

I guess that depends on what they're supposed improve...