Breh you are just honest. Probably one of the most honest dudes I have come across online.
Believe it or not some older dudes will be honest with you. I had one dude straight up tell me he wifed up because she got pregnant and gave the vibe that that was the only reason he went to the altar. You are openly honest and this is a good thing. But people are not openly honest about dissatisfaction with marriage. So you get men and women running around doing their own thing. Or they get married to project a certain image for their professional field. Or they have Open relationships.

I've looked at the definitions and I'm still not clear what this refers to. Does it mean I can come by in the middle of the night and smash your woman with no fukks given if we get on that level?
Honesty is like kryptonite for kats. Maybe it's always been this way. That thrill of being full of it and moving in shadows is just too enticing.