i coat the shaft with a minor controlled substance so that any woman i get it in with will associate me with extreme release of dopamine. this is how i keep a whole stable of bad heauxs at all times. at the level of game that i have, there is no girth, for the schlong itself disappears and you are using your very mind to make love to the woman. the highest ideal is to go beyond the physical brehs and to exercise control over them within the astral realm.