How do you not get tired being with the same women

[HowardHughes]

There are a few reasons why they think this way. The first being that many of them grew up in fatherless homes where they had no model marriage to observe. If one doesn't have a stable marriage to observe in their lifetime, they would think that no stable marriages actually exist. To them, stable marriages are really just a facade to keep up appearances, but deep down both parties are unhappy. I'm sure we can both see the ridiculousness of that train of thought: you can't possibly know the intricacies of what someone else is going through unless you experience it for yourself.

The next reason is they have friends that keep telling them not to get married. All of their friends are in unsuccessful marriages and tell them about how unhappy they are, so they have these impressions about marriage that make them think all marriage is bad. The problem with this train of thought is that your friends tend to think just like you, and sometimes even have the same (poor) taste in women as you do. It's not surprising that most of these dudes would have failing marriages when the real motivator behind getting married to begin with was wanting to be with an attractive woman. It's fine to want to be with someone who looks hot, but that CAN'T be the only criterion you use to determine a potential mate

Then of course there's the issue of most of these dudes wanting to marry a whore and hope that she'll eventually turn out to be a good housewife, but know this never works. Then they say that marriage is a scam and will lead to male financial destruction. Well of course it will. Whores have no moral compass (hence being whores), so they generally don't care about you or pleasing you. That kind of thinking will lead to the destruction of any marriage.

All of these things are why you have to choose your partners CAREFULLY. Stop using your dikks and use your damn heads! There's a reason why I ignore many of the women who approach me or show interest in me. They show no redeeming qualities whatsoever and show little to no wife potential. Some are hot, some are ugly, but almost none of them strike me as the type to hold you down.

Actually, I think the easiest way for someone to find a good wholesome woman is to be a virtuous man yourself. If you ask a woman to do so much, you too should bring just as much to the table.

A man of virtue can easily attract women of virtue, and these are women that aren't trying to destroy your marriage and take your money. They are women who will hold you down and truly love you. They'll be the left to your right and the sun to your moon.

 

[Nintendough]

Dawg judging by some of the comments these dudes make about women I dont think they have that luxury. U got dudes scared of chicks cause the hoodrats they have access to set nikkas up for robberies. Dudes scared of chicks cause the hoodrats they have access to stand to gain more from a child support check than whatever they have going on. Dudes scared of rejection cause theyre emotionally frail. Dudes scared to take responsibility and ownership of the outcomes of their dating lives, hiding behind abused and misused MRA talking points. Every time these dudes cry about something they tell us more about their personal issues than the world we live in. They are the male analog of the single bitter broad. Nothing in life worth having is free. If you arent happy with the women you attract step your shyt up.

I completely agree. I mean I've been played before but I didn't let it make me bitter. I learned and moved on.



The women that a man attracts is a reflection of himself. Sorry to tell you this fellas but if you got involved with a woman who did you dirty, you probably had it coming. You chose to get hung up on the smile and the ass but forgot to examine her character and desires.

 

[kermit da hustla]

I never understood the concept of getting bored with women. Try picking better women. People are so warped these days.

picking "better" women isn't going to make men any more interested in remaining with those females. monogamy isn't natural. men force themselves, due to social conditioning, into a contract that only leaves them unhappy. it's very EASY to get bored with fukking the same female for the rest of your life. the thought repulses me.

again, a lot of nikkas on here who believe in this monogamy bullshyt probably don't have the luxury of being able to step outside and get p*ssy thrown at him. they're perfectly content staying with one woman, be it a girlfriend or wife. but a lot of us, myself included, aren't bothering with just one female. i love variety. this world is filled with all kinds of women, all of whom coming with their distinct personalities and sexual appeal. i'm not giving myself to just one of them.

i'm fukking as many of them as i can. in the process, i'm meeting a lot of different women and enjoying the conversation.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Case closed You nailed it. Exactly what i wanted to say

He didnt nail anything. He basically doesnt know what hes talking about. You dont get married because you dont have any more options you get married because you have a desire to have a family and start it with a woman that you love.

A man will never settle down if he tries to keep up with having the best looking women. For men that are able to attract dimes, even they get old if theres nothing attaching you to that person besides her physical. Theres more to relationships besides the physical but you guys are just kids so you'll figure out what i mean later.

 

[winb83]

At the end of the day though there is no logic in you being so emotionally & intellectually invested in something that doesnt affect you.

You dont believe in marriage... dont get married. The psychological/moral projections onto people who do are unnecessary and more telling of you than them

some white people thought blacks should have the same rights they did. the lack of black rights didn't effect them but they still had an opinion on it.

some of yall are clearly bothered by the dissenting opinions against marriage sort of like how Christians are bothered by the existence of atheist.

personally it doesn't matter to me if people get married or not all i'm really saying is if you are gonna get married know that what you're doing is illogical and the odds of it lasting for the rest of your life are stacked against you and if it does it will be because you suffered through hard times and worked at it staying devoted and were lucky enough to find a partner willing to do the same. don't be like all the other fools that have that extra special love that's different from all the other loves out there.

 

[Goat poster]

good looking dudes who have no difficulty attracting females are not going to stay with one woman forever. that simple. the dudes who get married are the dudes who didn't get a lot of p*ssy. they're happy just to be with someone that will, presumably, always be there.

on the flip side, the women who eventually settle down and get married are the ones who got tired of trying to be with those dudes who get a lot of p*ssy. that's why most women end up with average-looking simp nikkas. they come to the realization that the nikkas they really want are never going to be faithful to them.

So do you think it's possible for a attractive dude that has his shyt together to grow up and get tired of dealing with multiple broads ( most of which prolly ain't about shyt at the end of the day) and find a beautiful, smart, sweet, & LOYAL , woman that will be an EXELLENT mother to his children and hold him down through WHATEVER he goes through.

When you deal with a level of woman that trumps every other broad you deal with, Why still hop from bed to bed with a lower caliber?

 

[winb83]

There are a few reasons why they think this way. The first being that many of them grew up in fatherless homes where they had no model marriage to observe. If one doesn't have a stable marriage to observe in their lifetime, they would think that no stable marriages actually exist. To them, stable marriages are really just a facade to keep up appearances, but deep down both parties are unhappy. I'm sure we can both see the ridiculousness of that train of thought: you can't possibly know the intricacies of what someone else is going through unless you experience it for yourself.

The next reason is they have friends that keep telling them not to get married. All of their friends are in unsuccessful marriages and tell them about how unhappy they are, so they have these impressions about marriage that make them think all marriage is bad. The problem with this train of thought is that your friends tend to think just like you, and sometimes even have the same (poor) taste in women as you do. It's not surprising that most of these dudes would have failing marriages when the real motivator behind getting married to begin with was wanting to be with an attractive woman. It's fine to want to be with someone who looks hot, but that CAN'T be the only criterion you use to determine a potential mate

Then of course there's the issue of most of these dudes wanting to marry a whore and hope that she'll eventually turn out to be a good housewife, but know this never works. Then they say that marriage is a scam and will lead to male financial destruction. Well of course it will. Whores have no moral compass (hence being whores), so they generally don't care about you or pleasing you. That kind of thinking will lead to the destruction of any marriage.

All of these things are why you have to choose your partners CAREFULLY. Stop using your dikks and use your damn heads! There's a reason why I ignore many of the women who approach me or show interest in me. They show no redeeming qualities whatsoever and show little to no wife potential. Some are hot, some are ugly, but almost none of them strike me as the type to hold you down.

Actually, I think the easiest way for someone to find a good wholesome woman is to be a virtuous man yourself. If you ask a woman to do so much, you too should bring just as much to the table.

A man of virtue can easily attract women of virtue, and these are women that aren't trying to destroy your marriage and take your money. They are women who will hold you down and truly love you. They'll be the left to your right and the sun to your moon.

what you can do to limit a failed marriage is highly limited. there is no level of care that which you choose your partner that will guarantee a successful marriage.

a successful marriage has far too many floating variables that are outside your control and are basically just random luck of the draw. you're making your choice in the face of these despite them being out of your control.

its like a person playing the lotto. all you have to do is pick the right numbers and you're guaranteed to win it. you can in fact say that about anything that involves a decision and make it sound easier than it actually is.

i get it though you people still believe in the system and you have to tell yourself something so you can continue to think that a successful marriage is something you alone can create with your decision making abilities when once you've eliminated all the obvious poor choices much of the rest of your success is based on nothing more than random odds and variables you can't possibly know and can only guess at.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

some white people thought blacks should have the same rights they did. the lack of black rights didn't effect them but they still had an opinion on it.

This is not comparable at all. Black people don't choose to be black. Married people choose to marry. There are other differences too but that is enough.

some of yall are clearly bothered by the dissenting opinions against marriage sort of like how Christians are bothered by the existence of atheist.

Not at all. You guys are the ones making these threads, you guys are the ones with the "get married brehs" campaigns, you guys are the ones trying to shame married men with terms like "simps" and "manginas". Responding to that and questioning why you take such an interest in something you want no part of is being bothered?

personally it doesn't matter to me if people get married or not

Then why do you spend so much time talking about it?

all i'm really saying is if you are gonna get married know that what you're doing is illogical and the odds of it lasting for the rest of your life are stacked against you and if it does it will be because you suffered through hard times and worked at it staying devoted and were lucky enough to find a partner willing to do the same. don't be like all the other fools that have that extra special love that's different from all the other loves out there.

You think people who get married don't know all this?

Even if someone gets married for the wrong reasons, can you explain how it affects you? You are just using the marriage debate as a vehicle for projecting and forcing your value system on others.

 

[kermit da hustla]

So do you think it's possible for a attractive dude that has his shyt together to grow up and get tired of dealing with multiple broads ( most of which prolly ain't about shyt at the end of the day) and find a beautiful, smart, sweet, & LOYAL , woman that will be an EXELLENT mother to his children and hold him down through WHATEVER he goes through.

When you deal with a level of woman that trumps every other broad you deal with, Why still hop from bed to bed with a lower caliber?

because the p*ssy gets boring. she could be mary poppins. at the end of the day, that p*ssy is the same p*ssy you fukked yesterday and the day before.

yall really trying to convince yourselves that shyt is sweet.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

what you can do to limit a failed marriage is highly limited. there is no level of care that which you choose your partner that will guarantee a successful marriage.

a successful marriage has far too many floating variables that are outside your control and are basically just random luck of the draw. you're making your choice in the face of these despite them being out of your control.

its like a person playing the lotto. all you have to do is pick the right numbers and you're guaranteed to win it. you can in fact say that about anything that involves a decision and make it sound easier than it actually is.

i get it though you people still believe in the system and you have to tell yourself something so you can continue to think that a successful marriage is something you alone can create with your decision making abilities when once you've eliminated all the obvious poor choices much of the rest of your success is based on nothing more than random odds and variables you can't possibly know and can only guess at.

All of this is true. The question still remains though. How does two people you will never meet getting married affect you?

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

because the p*ssy gets boring. she could be mary poppins. at the end of the day, that p*ssy is the same p*ssy you fukked yesterday and the day before.

yall really trying to convince yourselves that shyt is sweet.

Tehres more to life than getting p*ssy. Like coming to grips with your race

 

[Nintendough]

picking "better" women isn't going to make men any more interested in remaining with those females. monogamy isn't natural. men force themselves, due to social conditioning, into a contract that only leaves them unhappy. it's very EASY to get bored with fukking the same female for the rest of your life. the thought repulses me.

again, a lot of nikkas on here who believe in this monogamy bullshyt probably don't have the luxury of being able to step outside and get p*ssy thrown at him. they're perfectly content staying with one woman, be it a girlfriend or wife. but a lot of us, myself included, aren't bothering with just one female. i love variety. this world is filled with all kinds of women, all of whom coming with their distinct personalities and sexual appeal. i'm not giving myself to just one of them.

i'm fukking as many of them as i can. in the process, i'm meeting a lot of different women and enjoying the conversation.

Come on slime lets get to the truth here. That's not how life works. Its not a 24/7 vacation where its new p*ssy and drinks on the daily. Plus, even if that rapper lifestyle was real for a normal person, you wouldn't be one of them. You can't even decide if your a trap star or a corporate suit. These rappers really fukked yall up.

 

[kermit da hustla]

Tehres more to life than getting p*ssy. Like coming to grips with your race

i love being black.

and, when it comes to women, nah. there isn't much more to it than that p*ssy. and i want variety. why do you get mad at nikkas who aren't fukking with this marriage bullshyt?

 

[kermit da hustla]

Come on slime lets get to the truth here. That's not how life works. Its not a 24/7 vacation where its new p*ssy and drinks on the daily. Plus, even if that rapper lifestyle was real for a normal person, you wouldn't be one of them. You can't even decide if your a trap star or a corporate suit. These rappers really fukked yall up.

when have i ever pretended to be a corporate suit? i've never hidden my hustling past. and as far as life not being a 24/7 vacation? i didn't say that. i said that a lot of dudes out here are good-looking enough to get p*ssy thrown at them whenever they leave their crib. i'm one of them. those dudes aren't trying to stay with one girl. and, honestly, why should they?

 

[winb83]

This is not comparable at all. Black people don't choose to be black. Married people choose to marry. There are other differences too but that is enough.


Not at all. You guys are the ones making these threads, you guys are the ones with the "get married brehs" campaigns, you guys are the ones trying to shame married men with terms like "simps" and "manginas". Responding to that and questioning why you take such an interest in something you want no part of is being bothered?


Then why do you spend so much time talking about it?


You think people who get married don't know all this?

Even if someone gets married for the wrong reasons, can you explain how it affects you? You are just using the marriage debate as a vehicle for projecting and forcing your value system on others.

i think lots of people. many people go into marriage with the stance opposite of mine. they look at it with rose-tinted glasses and when shyt gets hard because they weren't realistic it fails.

they never signed up for this shyt. they were in love. it was supposed to be easy and last forever. they picked carefully and made the right choice.

i don't think too many people go into marriage with the flat out honesty with themselves that its a crapshoot with poor odds and that in the best case scenario its going to be a very challenging ordeal they'll have to look at and find some sort of worth beyond the surface to make last and that love isn't enough to save a marriage or make one successful.