How do you pull a legit dime without an IG?

Malcolmxxx_23

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Get better talking to girls....Talk to LOTS of girls.. go out 4 night a week
Put your self image and ego aside


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Sound advice but again you're pretty much leaving it up to random chance on whether you pull a "dime" or not. Which is reality. There's nothing you can do to guarantee pulling a dime (unless your criteria is fairly lenient).

To me, pulling a dime is like like bowling a 300. Yeah, it's great, but the goal is to put a score that you're satisfied with, not perfection. It's not "How do I bowl a 300", it's "How do I consistently put up good scores"

I agree with everything you posted except the bold part. Bowling a 300 is bowling a 300, bowling strike after strike and you look up at the board and see your score. That's a verifiable indisputable fact. Now if you stand up and say, "I'm one of the best bowlers in world because I bowled a 300" that's subjective and based on your opinion.

If the title of the thread was "How do I pull legit attractive women without IG, then that's different because the margin for error is wider in terms of attractiveness. But when you say dime, that narrows your options, because what is the base standard example of a dime? You may brag about your lady and claim she's a dime and your boys may be like :patrice:"I'd hit, but she's not a dime"

Let's say OP bags what he considers to be a dime. He's happy and thinks life is great because she's treats him right and they connect,; until someone tells him she's not a dime, or he sees another woman that he thinks looks better than his woman. Now he's looks at his girl like :scust::hhh: because he was chasing a status symbol instead of, like you said, being content with what he has because what he has is good.
 

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you need to expand your horizon and interact with dimes more, also you better show some type of value (car,career+fitness etc)
 

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I know we live in the social media age, but if u live in a big city and have clubs or other outlets where women go u good..

I see big Rick Ross dudes with dimes all the time..
Location is 60 percent of the work
Go out every night and start making friends with female

Oh but that takes work :manny:
 

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I think maybe my question was ambiguous. I am going outside and talking to them in real life. In the middle of the IRL convo is where they are repeatedly ask me for my IG
Sound like them hoes brushing you off then. Tell em you don't fukk with that
 

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The lazy answers; Be rich, famous, etc.

The realistic answer; Work on your game. I have an IG with no pics of myself, frankly no pics at all, and I'm pulling what some might consider 9's (10's don't exist). You have to work on all aspects; from the dealing with rejection, to the strategy of making them qualify for you. Most importantly, you have to know how to talk. And by that I mean, how not to be a one note Nelson and keep the conversation interesting. Never talk about what she likes, ask her what she enjoys but deep dive into yourself. You present her with greatness and she has to qualify in response.

Secondly, I barely have an FB, as I posted before on here, lying/manipulation is key, don't let anyone tell you different. Don't lie a lot, just focus on certain reliable topics you can lie about. For example; I use the whole "I'm a photog" bit, that a lone drops panties. bytches love attention, even more so when they can tell their friends that they modeled for a magazine or what have you. Use this to your advantage.

Lastly. Try not making sex a focal point. The less you think about it, the less they notice the agenda. Women have a second sense about dudes wanting to smash(probably because guys come up to them with the intention to), so you're job is to be an aloof a$$hole with some articulation.
 
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physical attraction>>>>>>wealth>>>>>>status>>>>>>it's simple*

I agree physical attraction is #1..
but there might also be the category of "overall demeanor" which carries a lot of vague terms like masculinity, confidence, boldness, sophistication.. even things like self-awareness

Where would it go???
 

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I agree physical attraction is #1..
but there might also be the category of "overall demeanor" which carries a lot of vague terms like masculinity, confidence, boldness, sophistication.. even things like self-awareness

Where would it go???
after the things that actually matter after the measurables none of that stuff matters if she ain't dripping
you could be all that and get put the friendzone really

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after the things that actually matter after the measurables none of that stuff matters if she ain't dripping
you could be all that and get put the friendzone really

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But what if the physical attraction is there, but your personality is trash, and you come of weak, whiny, and desperate? Is she still gonna deal with you?

You still need other qualities to seal the deal. There's plenty of good looking dudes that are lame as hell, and don't get much pu**y.
 

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Get rich, famous or both. Those guys have dimes approaching them and some women even do a balleralert website type stakeout to make sure your paths cross.






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