How do you stop being mr nice guy, my last 2 gf left me for being too nice

[International Playa]

Damnnn brehs, I cant seem to shake off the "mr nice guy" title, 2 consecutive gf have ditched me for being nice

When it was their bdays, I bought thoughtful gifts, cakes,

Did not play games, or talked to other girls

Talked to them & was there if they needed me.

Both mentioned how nice I was, but weeks later they became distant n just left.

I cant seem to shake off the "nice guy" title

 

[SUAJCS*93*]

Just stop being nice

 

[↓R↑LYB]

That was just a nice way of telling you your stroke game is wack

 

[Collateral]

 

[Freedman]

too be honest big brother I highly doubt they left BC you were too nice

 

[NoChillJones]

Being a nice guy and being a push over are 2 different things. Stop letting these hoes walk all over you. Draw your line in stand and put your foot down when they step over it. You don't have to be an a$$hole. But you do have to be a stronger man breh.......

 

[BronxFleeZ]

Being a nice guy and being a push over are 2 different things. Stop letting these hoes walk all over you. Draw your line in stand and put your foot down when they step over it.

Came in to say this. Give them a reason to be mad at you sometimes. I heard a girl say if a nikka too nice then it's suspicions that he's cheating. It's dumb but it's women my dude

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Cheat on em, ignore them, don't help them and sell or use some type of drug. Preferably weed and crack.

They won't be able to leave you alone then.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Came in to say this. Give them a reason to be mad at you sometimes. I heard a girl say if a nikka too nice then it's suspicions that he's cheating. It's dumb but it's women my dude

The crazy part is a woman will breakup with a man quicker that's nice and suspected of cheating than an a$$hole that's suspected of cheating.

 

[Gimini00]

Some of you confuse the term nice with being a emotional cornball, women don't like the latter

 

[NotaPAWG]

Don't change yourself because you picked women with low self esteem. Continue being you

 

[Justise M]

make sure your girl always understands you don't need her and she could be replaced at any mess up

you're doing her a favor by being with her

(it may not be true, but you need to carry yourself with confidence)

 

[ridedolo]

lol at op's name being "playa" though

 

[YOGEBEAR09]

You either savage or you not

 

[At30wecashout]

Nah, B. If you were good enough to get them to date you exclusively, there are underlying reasons they dumped you that are hidden under "Too nice."

That is why men hate being told they are "too nice" btw. It p*ssyfoots around the details of why you aren't attractive.