How do you stop being mr nice guy, my last 2 gf left me for being too nice

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Being nice = you're either too lovey dovey (making love instead of fukking her brains out) or you're a pushover (she wears the pants and you let her have her way) or you're boring (she doesn't have to compete for your attention).

3Ds = dikk + discipline + drama. :yeshrug:
 

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Don't change yourself because you picked women with low self esteem. Continue being you

Wrong, Wrong, Wrong. A woman wants to feel protected. If they sense that you cannot protect or take care of them, then they will feel like your a push over and at some point will drop the point in regards to their protection. This is a basic necessity for most women in the world. You don't have to be masculine per say. But they do need to feel protected. You have to ask yourself what are you doing that is making your women feel that they are not?
 

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Damnnn brehs, I cant seem to shake off the "mr nice guy" title, 2 consecutive gf have ditched me for being nice:to:

When it was their bdays, I bought thoughtful gifts, cakes,

Did not play games, or talked to other girls

Talked to them & was there if they needed me.

Both mentioned how nice I was, but weeks later they became distant n just left.

I cant seem to shake off the "nice guy" title

How old are you and these women?
 

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If you really genuinely are a 'Nice guy' & both women left as a result then they are the ones with deep-seated issues that most likely stem from low self-esteem and addiction to drama. You can't 'nice' someone into loving you. People are their patterns.

Be nice but have boundaries and assert them when necessary.
 

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Damnnn brehs, I cant seem to shake off the "mr nice guy" title, 2 consecutive gf have ditched me for being nice:to:

When it was their bdays, I bought thoughtful gifts, cakes,

Did not play games, or talked to other girls

Talked to them & was there if they needed me.

Both mentioned how nice I was, but weeks later they became distant n just left.

I cant seem to shake off the "nice guy" title

How old are you and how old were they?
 
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