HOW DO YOU TELL SOMEONE NICELY...

[Mowgli]

I actually haven't made this confession to my husband yet...

I don't want him to feel caught in the middle.

So you gonna tell your husband's family member they have to get the fukk out without telling him. You could just put heads together and possibly come up with a soft solution.

Instead you coming to some devils on the Internet. Girl I think you got more problems then these family members. Damn.

 

[Unknown Poster]

He got kicked out by his girlfriend and my husband invited him to stay for two weeks...

Its been a MONTH. He hasn't made a single move towards finding his own place...

nikka ate my leftover Pasta the other night that I was saving for the next days lunch. That was the last straw.

Tell him to go to a homeless shelter or the ymca.

 

[prince_peoples]

is he helping with the bills?

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

So you gonna tell your husband's family member they have to get the fukk out without telling him. You could just put heads together and possibly come up with a soft solution.

Instead you coming to some devils on the Internet. Girl I think you got more problems then these family members. Damn.

And where exactly did I say I was kicking him out without talking to my husband?

There's always one…...I swear...

Tell him to go to a homeless shelter or the ymca.

Lmao I can be a bytch but I'm not completely heartless..

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

is he helping with the bills?

.….he gave me $50 the first week and $5 in change on some laundry detergent.

 

[Moshe.]

Same thing happened to me. Family is family but you must be upfront with them otherwise you're going to harbor resentment and that is what causes a lot of unnecessary tension. So be upfront with him, and if he doesn't oblige, tell your husband to get rid of his ass.

 

[Mowgli]

And where exactly did I say I was kicking him out without talking to my husband?

There's always one…...I swear...



Lmao I can be a bytch but I'm not completely heartless..

You the one discussing family business with strangers before your husband. If you were my wife you'd have a problem...

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

Same thing happened to me. Family is family but you must be upfront with them otherwise you're going to harbor resentment and that is what causes a lot of unnecessary tension. So be upfront with him, and if he doesn't oblige, tell your husband to get rid of his ass.

True. Him and I were pretty tight prior to this living arrangement. I don't want to secretly start hating him and ruin things for after he is gone.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

You the one discussing family business with strangers before your husband. If you were my wife you'd have a problem...

Do you know anything about me other than my screen name and what I've told you in this thread?

Could you pick me out OR my husband out if we were standing in a crowd?

..…..didn't think so.

Something tells me he gives zero fukks that I told people that he nor I have ever seen or met who have never seen or met me "family business"

It aint that serious....

 

[King Poetic]

He got kicked out by his girlfriend and my husband invited him to stay for two weeks...

Its been a MONTH. He hasn't made a single move towards finding his own place...

nikka ate my leftover Pasta the other night that I was saving for the next days lunch. That was the last straw.

he has to go regardless... u are married, so that's your house as well, so tell his ass tonight or tomorrow U NEED TO LOG OF THE COLI AND GET THE fukk OUT MY HOUSE...

then u tell your husband, it's either him or your relative leaving.. so who's it going to be

 

[Yehuda]

Lived a similar situation except dude wasn't even my relative it was just a friend. Negro ate some leftovers from a cookout I was saving I was so pissed off, told him flat out he better kick rocks. I don't even know why he came to my house in the first place we were never that cool anyway.

I went to see his father to know what the fukk was wrong with him turns out the muthaphucka was just ducking a fade from a goon after getting his sister pregnant, when he first came to my house he told me his dad kicked him out and he had no place to live smh.

If you're too p*ssy to kick him out then tell your husband to man the fukk up and do it.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

he has to go regardless... u are married, so that's your house as well, so tell his ass tonight or tomorrow U NEED TO LOG OF THE COLI AND GET THE fukk OUT MY HOUSE...

then u tell your husband, it's either him or your relative leaving.. so who's it going to be

The conversation will definitely be had before the weekend....

I like fukkin in weird places...I can't get down with homie on my couch. Lol

 

[whknorth]

show him your nasty droopy t*ts and he will leave asap.

 

[KOOL-AID]

He got kicked out by his girlfriend and my husband invited him to stay for two weeks...

Its been a MONTH. He hasn't made a single move towards finding his own place...

nikka ate my leftover Pasta the other night that I was saving for the next days lunch. That was the last straw.

lol he a grown ass man n he actin like a child, tell him straight up to leave and that his visit was overstayed. tell him to man up and get his shyt together, tlk to ur husband as well, sounds like he enabling this situation.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

show him your nasty droopy t*ts and he will leave asap.

You havent seen my (and I'm sure not any other) t*ts to say....

Troll much?