How does it make you feel when someone not too attractive comes on to you?

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Nor is having to deal with someone you're not attracted to. Reject them...swiftly and keep it pushing. It beats having to spend countless moments grinning at someone you can't stand the sight of.
Maybe for you it isn't but I try to make the best out of it and I think that's what makes the difference. I'm sure if you carry around the attitude that you "can't stand the sight of" them, you won't be able to enjoy that time.
 

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Maybe for you it isn't but I try to make the best out of it and I think that's what makes the difference. I'm sure if you carry around the attitude that you "can't stand the sight of" them, you won't be able to enjoy that time.
I think you can instill unnecessary hope in someone by not rejecting them from the jump. shyt sometimes just being nice to someone can have them thinking all types of way. Whatever works for you though.
 

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I think you can instill unnecessary hope in someone by not rejecting them from the jump. shyt sometimes just being nice to someone can have them thinking all types of way. Whatever works for you though.
Yeah but what does instilling hope in them have to do with the idea of you not being able to stand the sight of them? I mean, which is it? You cant stand looking at someone you're not physically interested in or you're trying to prevent them from getting the wrong idea?
 

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Yeah but what does instilling hope in them have to do with the idea of you not being able to stand the sight of them? I mean, which is it? You cant stand looking at someone you're not physically interested in or you're trying to prevent them from getting the wrong idea?
It can't be both?
 

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It can't be both?
It can be, but it sounds rather conceited and arrogant. You can't stand the sight of them (?) and you think you're going to instill some "hope" in them just because they came on to you and you decide to talk with, like normal human beings do.
 

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It can be, but it sounds rather conceited and arrogant. You can't stand the sight of them (?) and you think you're going to instill some "hope" in them just because they came on to you and you decide to talk with, like normal human beings do.
Ok "can't stand the sight of" is harsh but if you're not attracted to someone I don't feel you should waste time kicking it with them especially if you know they are feeling you. Rejection feels bad but feeling you were lead on is a worst feeling, imo.
 
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Doesnt bother me at all, it is what is. I think in this case the nonchalant attitude may be ideal.
 

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I take it as a compliment. No matter how a chick looks, the fact that she took the time and courage to try to get my attention, I have to respect that. I say that because I feel the same way about dudes approaching chicks. It kills me when I see chicks complaining about dudes approaching them when they know they would be hurt if no dudes approached them again. Just take it as a compliment even if you're not interested in kind.

Not one type of woman is going to find a dude attractive. There's going to some skinny women, some overweight women, some coke-bottle women, some tall women, some short women, etc. Any dude who expects only attractive women to find him attractive is delusional and probably over-assessing his attractiveness in his own right.

Funny thing is, the same dudes who are complaining in this thread don't see it from the other side. Dudes think every chick they approach thinks they're a catch....dudes don't think that they don't play the "damn, why is this dude trying to get at me" role sometimes.

Peace
 

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I'm flattered either way

busted or beautiful, if broads fukk with you means your ass is doing something right
 

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I consider myself attractive. I take it as a compiment and be polite about it. If im not interested I'd either tell them and say thanx or I dont give them much attention. Not on some stuck up shyt just on some im not interest vibe "hope u get the hint." I think its messed up that I care so much about hurting her feelings in the process. But women reject men like opening the door everyday and dont give it a 2nd thought. Not to sound like a a$$hole but I think we should do that if were truly not interested. Its best to be honest upfront so u can prevent boring dates knowing u not feeling her. At the sametime I do be like damn y I keep attracting women im not into lol. Probably just gotta work harder when it comes to dimes.
 
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