how does one get a serious girlfriend

[mariahcooper]

Most loser women, all they have to barter is their p*ssy. Men have so many other things to barter when it comes to the sex game and the relationship game. It’s not their fault, because they all do it, so there has to be nature involved.”

“We have other things that make us attractive to women. Initially, there’s only one thing that makes them attractive to us, and that’s fukking them, and then it builds from there.”

“You gotta understand that when you meet these women essentially they are losers. She HAS to get something out of her p*ssy, dude. She has to get dinner. She has to get a movie. How can she function if she doesn’t get something out of what she has?”

“When you’re taking her out to dinner and to the movies, that’s her way of fukking you. If you take her out 5 times, she’s fukked you 5 times, and you haven’t fukked her yet [...] Don’t let them fukk you, because dinner/movie time is them fukking you. Are you a whore? You can’t let a woman whore out your time.”

-patrice oneal

Most men want a woman that can cook, clean, and bear him children. How is a woman useless if she has to take care of the home, her man, and kids??

 

[Dreamzeedream]

I always say real recognize real. Look within yourself to see if you would attract or be worthy of a serious girlfriend.

What if your ugly

 

[Colicat]

.....You really want me to believe your spending money on new shoes and outfits for dates with your entitled attitude??

I do buy clothes, shoes, get my nails done (I do my own hair).... Not to mention accessories....you really shouldn't be amazed at the pressure a woman puts on herself and internalizes in order to look good.....
How do I sound entitled? .....

Looking for a free meal

I see your hustle

I am NOT a hustler... I actually haven't been out on a date in years.... netflix and me cooking dinner don't count...

 

[skeetsinternal]

What if your ugly

then chances are you will have an ugly serious girlfriend

 

[360dagod]

I do buy clothes, shoes, get my nails done (I do my own hair).... Not to mention accessories....you really shouldn't be amazed at the pressure a woman puts on herself and internalizes in order to look good.....
How do I sound entitled? .....



I am NOT a hustler... I actually haven't been out on a date in years.... netflix and me cooking dinner don't count...

Why cant you go out with the the clothes and shoes you have already???The fact that you feel you need to do all this subconsciously gives you a feeling of entitlement

Why cant you accept simplicity?

Why must everything be "labeled"??

We as men want simplicity and not to be pressured...

We don't want to feel like we are on eggshells when dealing with a female that we are dating...

You consider a theatre performance a semi-formal date? You know how tough it is to get the average nikka to come out of his comfort zone of clothing apparel..

All you have to do is make it clear once ... Tell that man what your looking for and leave it at that...

If you find out he is not feeling what your trying to do, then you should already have prospects...

All of that extra shyt your doing is a turnoff sweetheart..

At the end of the day, the decision is yours if you want to give up the p*ssy...

 

[Colicat]

Why cant you go out with the the clothes and shoes you have already??? ( You clearly aren't a woman) The fact that you feel you need to do all this subconsciously gives you a feeling of entitlement (nah)

Why cant you accept simplicity? ( I prefer to keep it simple, that don't mean we not going out)

Why must everything be "labeled"?? (You can try that on the naive... Where are we headed and are you my man and am I your woman )

We as men want simplicity and not to be pressured...

We don't want to feel like we are on eggshells when dealing with a female that we are dating... (Why are you on eggshells? There is no pressure when you are clear with your intentions )

You consider a theatre performance a semi-formal date? You know how tough it is to get the average nikka to come out of his comfort zone of clothing apparel.. (Le sigh, men don't understand how sexy they are when they wear slacks and hard bottom shoes....... Goodness just thinking about it turns me on.... Fall up out them basketball shorts )

All you have to do is make it clear once ... Tell that man what your looking for and leave it at that... ( I agree here)

If you find out he is not feeling what your trying to do, then you should already have prospects...

All of that extra shyt your doing is a turnoff sweetheart..

At the end of the day, the decision is yours if you want to give up the p*ssy... (If I want to be in a relationship with you, I am taking the D; especially if I go out on a variety of dates with you)... I don't waste time on someone

 

[360dagod]

@Colicat

You really would go out and buy new shoes and shyt for a date??...Im really trying to figure this out for a variety of reasons

Its not even about me being a female, you don't think that what you have is currently good enough?

I can understand nails and hair, but seriously..

How old are you if you don't mind me asking??

 

[Colicat]

@Colicat

You really would go out and buy new shoes and shyt for a date??...Im really trying to figure this out for a variety of reasons

Its not even about me being a female, you don't think that what you have is currently good enough?
I can understand nails and hair, but seriously..

How old are you if you don't mind me asking??

It's not about what's good enough... It's about having fashionable options... Sometimes you want to wear something new for a new potential and sometimes a date is a perfect excuse to drop a few dollars on a new pair of shoes that you have been eyeballing... That will go perfectly with a jacket or top that you saw as well... A lot of pieces are statement pieces that deserve a special destination... .... And that part I don't expect you to relate to....

I am old enough to have a fair share of disposable income ....

 

[360dagod]

It's not about what's good enough... It's about having fashionable options... Sometimes you want to wear something new for a new potential and sometimes a date is a perfect excuse to drop a few dollars on a new pair of shoes that you have been eyeballing... That will go perfectly with a jacket or top that you saw as well... A lot of pieces are statement pieces that deserve a special destination... .... And that part I don't expect you to relate to....

I am old enough to have a fair share of disposable income ....

I wasn't trying to be disrespectful homie...

I asked you your age because that can be some help in me understanding why you think the way you think..i was trying to understand you at some level

So your answer screamed insecurity...Which means your very close to 30....Or past it

But since you jumped at me for no reason, you gotta answer this question now...OFF GP

Have you ever had your vagina licked from the 9-3 angle??

Like its customary for women to have it eaten at the 12-6 angle but I was reading this book on orgasms and they mentioned the 9-3 angle

 

[Colicat]

I wasn't trying to be disrespectful homie...

I asked you your age because that can be some help in me understanding why you think the way you think..i was trying to understand you at some level

So your answer screamed insecurity...Which means your very close to 30....Or past it

But since you jumped at me for no reason, you gotta answer this question now...OFF GP

Have you ever had your vagina licked from the 9-3 angle??

Like its customary for women to have it eaten at the 12-6 angle but I was reading this book on orgasms and they mentioned the 9-3 angle

Not insecure about my age whatsoever.... My response was based on you insinuating that my opinion was in any way juvenile...

I have had the pleasure of experiencing both and I don't recall feeling as one being better than the other... They both are

 

[Youseenmywork]

@360dagod so much i wanna say cause im 30 . Im hit this thread up later but i can already see the flaws in colicat woman logic....

 

[360dagod]

@360dagod so much i wanna say cause im 30 . Im hit this thread up later but i can already see the flaws in colicat woman logic....

well a male being 30 and a female being 30 usually possesses 2 different mindsets..

Im all for learning though

 

[MikelArteta]

Most of the women today are unworthy of a good title in your life.

Have a code , rules, regulations and use it.

Example no single mothers, no tattoos, educated , humble

So even if her body is and her body is if she got a kid, big ol tattoo, dropped out of hs and is filled with pride its still bushes

 

[Youseenmywork]

@360dagod here is something i learned in college from thr blog so suave


These are long but worth it ....

Anti-Dump's Machine (Part II: More Interest Level)Let us say you set up a date. And the woman does not like your date idea! Heavens no, what should we say to her, Anti-Dump?

Quote:It doesn't matter WHAT you say. You will never speak to her again.

Okay, I say "Sorry, I'm not interested. Take care." Then I hang up.

Anytime a women wants to change your initial approach, just counter with "I'm not interested" then counter-offer.

You: Let's do dinner Saturday.

Her: I feel like bowling.

You: I'm not interested in bowling. Let's do pool.

Remember this is ONLY for the first and second date. And it's a test of interest to see if she follows your lead the SECOND time.

If she doesn't follow with the second request, say "Listen.Let's do this another time. Take care."
Then don't call back. She is too INFLEXABLE to date.
But what if she asks, “Sure i'd like to go, but could you call me that day a few hours before to confirm?" and the variances to that?

Don Steele, the author of several dating books, decided to answer this,

Quote:say, "Maybe we should get together some other time instead when you're able to be more sure of your schedule." Cause if you let her do that, She's playin ya, taken you for granted, and looking for a way to blow-you off at the last minute...AND THAT SUX! Been there, done that.

However, I see what she did as a TEST of the Steel Content of your balls. Women have to find out if you are a Boy or a Man capable of protecting and providing. If you are a Boy, she is immediately NOT INTERESTED in sending her DNA into the future with you!

I teach and preach that Men have to accept that female will test them. Don't assume she's a game player or taking you for granted. Assume that SHE IS INTERESTED and therefore SHE IS TESTING to see if you are WORTHY. Boys ain't. Men might be. There will be more tests and after that still more tests.
BondjamesBond comments with the following,

Quote:Speaking for myself, I never had a problem with confirmation calls.....I use to do it all the time. But it was always me who said that I would call about a day or so ahead of time to make certain things were still on. It was my own little test. If they acted even the least bit half-hearted or wanted to back out then I dropped them like a bad habit and never gave them a second thought again. Only once did I excuse a chick for not being able to show......She had to go to the hospital because of an attack of appendicitis. So things do happen.

I can't tell you the number of times some broads would call me again and again trying to set something back up after I felt they burned me. But they all got the same response-----CLICK------

I think a confirmation call can be reasonable within limits that you, yourself , set

 

[Slaimon Khan Shah]

Was your wife already Islamic when you met or she converted?

My wife was born into Islam and grew up as a Muslim. May Allah bless her.