How does one get the guts to relocate to another state

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I’ve lived in like 17 different places. Everybody is like, how do you do it, moving to a place where you don’t know anybody? It’s simple, you just move, take a couple of weeks to learn the new area, start your new job/school, meet new friends that way. Or you can do online dating to meet some girls. Maybe find a bar or restaurant you like and meet people there. You can also use meetup (though, I’ve never tried it).

It’s easier to move the younger you are though. When you get into your mid to late 30s, finding friends is fairly difficult, as most people that age have a wife and kids. :patrice:
 

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When you thought all was well cause them plain clothes had nothing on you..
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But now them alphabet boys are starting to look at you because you're just a little too clean to be with the company you keep .......
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It may be time to relocate
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I been hopping from new Jersey to Florida and vice versa all my life. :heh: I just up and decide to do shyt. I even moved to pa for 6 months randomly like middle of the night.
 

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Moved from here to.Midwest following some Puzzy

Up and skipped town from Midwest back home a few years ago

Its nerve racking but like Brehs have said:

Just bust a move. Its uncomfortable for a while but it comes together
 

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I seriously pray for the day I did a nice job offer out of state I will move in a heartbeat :noah:

Let me help you get those guts prepared to move. PM me and we can work it out. I've lived in 3 different states and 5 different cities within like a 5 year span :damn:

I finally am settled now but I'm trying to move before I hit 40 :lawd:
I lived in like
 

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I need money and I happily skip town after getting everything together...:dahell: it's not that hard...

But what you mean who will have you?!?Pause b...:dame:
 

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The only thing that can get me to move is a major career opportunity in a liberal state.


I’m not on board with this weird hopping state to state fetish.
It’s got its benefits though. Swimming in a lake vs a jacuzzi type situation. Plus, different parts of the country are vastly different. I moved from CT to Oklahoma, and that was an insane contrast; like two different worlds. I’ve lived in the desert in AZ and then in the freezing cold in Chicago.

I understand you can put roots down and have longer friendships if you stay in one place, but moving has its benefits. :yeshrug:
 
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