How Does The Coli feel about giving money to a woman you are dating?

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Lol. I was trying to just ask a general question, but it seems like most people want exact scenarios.
cause there is no general scenario...... neither a man or a woman wants to feel like a chump giving money to somebody who is not emotionally invested in them in a respectable fashion...... :stopitslime:
 

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This is a tricky question. Does she give me money? Does she have it if I need it? Is she a partner or a child? A liability?
 
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A lot of good women won't ask for anything, they'll just leave you after a while and you'll probably never know why.

If you have a really good classy traditional woman, that's loyal, not showing her azz on IG, no male friends and ex's lingering around. Cooks, cleans and loves you right. If her money isn't right, you should show her you're going to take care of her. My OG told me, you have to show a woman how it's going to be for her being with you.


Depending on ya'll income level... you need to be like "hey babe, heres' 200$, 250$ to help you out' MONTHLY!!


Don't be like me....:francis: I had my dream girl, 3 times. I thought I was just superfly, probably was, but that's not enough. I took them all for granted. Had money and didnt give them shyt.


"Now I'm sinking.... sinking to raise no more...."

 

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There are a lot of factors that play into this.

I'll randomly send $20 to a chick I'm dating and tell her lunch on me today babe. If you my WOMAN woman, like we're in a real partnership, you got it if I got it.

But you have to be a good woman with outstanding character and spoil me just the same. Dirtbag chicks get nada.
 

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Most p*ssy comes with a price tag, some way or another..question is how long are you prepared to wait :hubie:

Brehs that willingly drop cash, and the women that willing take it know exactly what's up..now stay out of people's bedrooms :ufdup:
 

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Did she ask or one just giving it to her? How did she present herself? A boss biitch or just a regular person? Her character traits? Is she selfish or self-centered? Does she share? What do you mean by "dating"?
All this. There are so many variables to consider.

I will say this. In general, I have no issue with giving to people I care about and who care about me. I'm not a stingy ni66a.
 

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Sounds like bum behavior if she asked. Money management is key to being a functional adult. I understand we all have problems.

How old is she? If she’s over 30 run away.
:dahell:

If y'all really think it's only broke/non working women who only be on this :mjlol:
 
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