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RIP Fresh RIP Doe RIP Phat
I praise my dad for his sacrifices, but eventually there is gonna have to be a conversation had between generations about how we move forward with manhood in the West.It's not miserable, it's praiseworthy.
Because a common thread amongst a large number younger Nigerian boys/men is "my dad was miserable/angry 90% of the time, I don't want to live like that."
And the problem is in America, they don't have to live to that standard of manhood, of working and stressing yourself to death in hope of eventual reward.


being a husband, provider, and a father figure ain't easy but it's also not an excuse to not have some fun with it. 



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