With that said it comes a point where you should be in a relationship where you should trust your partner isn't a scumbag and aint out there calling, texting and sneaking around.
I don't expect
@Queen of the Dead to not have ties or "friendships" with exes's former flings or previous romantic interest.
But I trust her enough to believe she wont engage, pursue or put herself in situations that would compromise us. And I'm sure she feels the exact same about me.
Stuff can happen sure.
but over all, you have to make smart choices with who you decide to trust and spend your time and resources on to minimize or eliminate that from happening.