How does this make you feel?

[SheWantTheD]

Doesn't make me feel anything. Just another meme highlighting dysfunctional relationships and the dating game in 2017.

There are people who do those things and those that don't.

 

[SheWantTheD]

OP even admitted she does this.

She said that she won't stop talking to all of her romantic interests until she's sure that she wants to go into a relationship with one of them

Yeah, I remember LOL.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Lazy and bitter shyt that normalizes the idea that nobody is loyal, no one is really in love, etc. I'd imagine lonely or bitter people feel better about their situation after telling themselves that. Lots of people are out here in dysfunctional pseudo relationships and wonder why they aren't happy.

And I say that as someone who has been cheated on before. Personally I have never cheated. I know people roll their eyes at "I'd never cheat" declarations but when I think about the shyt my mom went thru due to my dad's fukkery...as a man I have no interest in putting someone I love thru that.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Lmao people are going to always create whatever narrative they need to tell themselves to justify their immaturity, insecurity and petty bullshyt.

"Lemme not put all my eggs in one basket because I don't want to get hurt".

If that's how men and women think then that's a miserable existence and they need to reevaluate their sense of worth and the type of men/women they're chasing if it's been a consistent problem in their dating experiences.

It's the same coded language as "talking to" someone really means fukking them, (unless you specifically state that nothing happened).

Lettuce say texting=the flirting, cupcaking, exchanging picures and all that bullshyt for the sake of this thread.

 

[Daio]

Since I started dating I would usually talk to like 3 guys at once and eliminate/weed them out for the most compatible fit. Even when I chose my 1st boyfriend, I was talking to other guys to see whose personalities I liked and had chemistry with most. Who made me feel most comfortable and who could hold conversation. I love having options before settling because once I pick 1, I'm sticking to him. I don't want doubts/regrets. Though he (1st boyfriend) was manipulating me then putting his game face on for sex . He wasnt no better than the others but he portrayed it and looked better than them so it swayed me.

But I learned. Still a process I've stuck with before leaping into anything. Options with everything.

 

[Poitier]

It's the same coded language as "talking to" someone really means fukking them, (unless you specifically state that nothing happened).

Lettuce say texting=the flirting, cupcaking, exchanging picures and all that bullshyt for the sake of this thread.

Yeah, I know its insecure bullshyt on the part of coli nikkas who are possessive but I'm not a weirdo who rushes to cuff a girls so I've never worried about "texting" since I was doing my own thing until it was clear I had a solid foundation and friendship with any girl I dated to where paranoia did not exist.

 

[Aphrodite]

I love having options before settling because once I pick 1, I'm sticking to him.

 

[iBrowse]

Yeah, I know its insecure bullshyt on the part of coli nikkas who are possessive but I'm not a weirdo who rushes to cuff a girls so I've never worried about "texting" since I was doing my own thing until it was clear I had a solid foundation and friendship with any girl I dated to where paranoia did not exist.

Goes without saying...who falls in love over texts? End of the day, the basis of juggling more than one person in your phone is to avoid feeling alone and having rebounds so your ego isn't bruised. That foundation and friendship is still based on exclusivity though.

I'm doing my own thing 24/7 so if I'm talking to, texting, fukking, whatever girl A, ain't no B. If she doesn't add to what I got going on she's bushes.