How guys become #HOH

[At30wecashout]

It was a joke, they are together.

On the other hand, I ain't mad. Being demoted to friendship is brutal. If women threw dudes who liked them to the curb, it would be MUCH easier

than living within spitting distance of the girl but knowing she likes everybody who isn't you, especially when she compliments you for shyt she isn't

getting from her romantic partnersThankfully im too old for that shyt, but I still own some beachfront property in the friendzone.

 

[NotAnFBIagent]

alot of guys think they are in a relationship when they are really just temporary until she finds what she really wants...perfect example was just this past valentines day, the Friday before v-day a black female co-worker received 20 roses, when it delivered to her desk from her husband, she rolled her eyes and put the flowers underneath her desk.....the same day she gets a card from a male co-worker and her face lights up like christmas...

at her husband being "temporary"

Imma play devils advocate here maybe her husband was caught cheating or something and sent all those roses trying to overcompensate

But damn #GMB

 

[Lo-Co]

 

[Lo-Co]

im confused

Ahhhh.

 

[Deflatedhoopdreams]

YOOOOOOOO

 

[audemarzz]

It was a joke, they are together.

On the other hand, I ain't mad. Being demoted to friendship is brutal. If women threw dudes who liked them to the curb, it would be MUCH easier

than living within spitting distance of the girl but knowing she likes everybody who isn't you, especially when she compliments you for shyt she isn't

getting from her romantic partnersThankfully im too old for that shyt, but I still own some beachfront property in the friendzone.

I remember a more naive me, I was into a chick we was doing relationship stuff, I thought to build a relationship you had to start as friends and move into being a couple, not knowing this is a convenient way for some females to use you. Everything we did resembled that of a couple with the exception of fukking(my mistake.) Hit me hard to find out my homie was breaking her back I can't even remember how I found out but I confronted her as soon as I did. The odd part was we hung out a majority of the time so I'm like when could this have occurred, I guess when I would drop her off he'd come over hit it and be off(didn't really click in my mind till my homie told me most of her excuses to go was so she could meetup with him, I typically wouldn't care but some of her excuses was fukked up)My dumb ass get to go to church and praise with you

I still remember her response "You never said you love me" This was true but I was working up to that, but I had thought my actions would convey those feelings, but Silly of me to think that I Could ever have you for my girl How I love you, How I want you, Silly of me to think that you Could ever really want me too How I love you.(Had to break into song a bit but it fits with the story so ehh)

I knew a majority of her fam she introduced me to the parents, at a point I considered "did they all know I was being used, were they apart of the plot"

It was little side shyt she did to that led me to thinking it could be more or that she was interested in me, I was to naive at that point to see the signs and she knew just how to manipulate me to the point were I could be led on.

One of the times she told me she had to go aka(go get her back broke) her father has/had cancer so she said she got a call and it didn't look good and had to rush to the hospital, my dumb ass offered to go with her but she refused and left . . Meanwhile I'm at home sitting up praying to god for a sickness that isn't there for a surgery that isn't happening to go well

I wonder if god was sitting up making the () face while I prayed for an imaginary surgery to go well

Eventually she tried to offer me some pity p*ssy

 

[wickedsm]

I remember a more naive me, I was into a chick we was doing relationship stuff, I thought to build a relationship you had to start as friends and move into being a couple, not knowing this is a convenient way for some females to use you. Everything we did resembled that of a couple with the exception of fukking(my mistake.) Hit me hard to find out my homie was breaking her back I can't even remember how I found out but I confronted her as soon as I did. The odd part was we hung out a majority of the time so I'm like when could this have occurred, I guess when I would drop her off he'd come over hit it and be off(didn't really click in my mind till my homie told me most of her excuses to go was so she could meetup with him, I typically wouldn't care but some of her excuses was fukked up)My dumb ass get to go to church and praise with you

I still remember her response "You never said you love me" This was true but I was working up to that, but I had thought my actions would convey those feelings, but Silly of me to think that I Could ever have you for my girl How I love you, How I want you, Silly of me to think that you Could ever really want me too How I love you.(Had to break into song a bit but it fits with the story so ehh)

I knew a majority of her fam she introduced me to the parents, at a point I considered "did they all know I was being used, were they apart of the plot"

It was little side shyt she did to that led me to thinking it could be more or that she was interested in me, I was to naive at that point to see the signs and she knew just how to manipulate me to the point were I could be led on.

One of the times she told me she had to go aka(go get her back broke) her father has/had cancer so she said she got a call and it didn't look good and had to rush to the hospital, my dumb ass offered to go with her but she refused and left . . Meanwhile I'm at home sitting up praying to god for a sickness that isn't there for a surgery that isn't happening to go well

I wonder if god was sitting up making the () face while I prayed for an imaginary surgery to go well

Eventually she tried to offer me some pity p*ssy

That's so fukked up.
Who lies on their sick dying father to run and be a booty call?

 

[At30wecashout]

I remember a more naive me, I was into a chick we was doing relationship stuff, I thought to build a relationship you had to start as friends and move into being a couple, not knowing this is a convenient way for some females to use you. Everything we did resembled that of a couple with the exception of fukking(my mistake.) Hit me hard to find out my homie was breaking her back I can't even remember how I found out but I confronted her as soon as I did. The odd part was we hung out a majority of the time so I'm like when could this have occurred, I guess when I would drop her off he'd come over hit it and be off(didn't really click in my mind till my homie told me most of her excuses to go was so she could meetup with him, I typically wouldn't care but some of her excuses was fukked up)My dumb ass get to go to church and praise with you

I still remember her response "You never said you love me" This was true but I was working up to that, but I had thought my actions would convey those feelings, but Silly of me to think that I Could ever have you for my girl How I love you, How I want you, Silly of me to think that you Could ever really want me too How I love you.(Had to break into song a bit but it fits with the story so ehh)

I knew a majority of her fam she introduced me to the parents, at a point I considered "did they all know I was being used, were they apart of the plot"

It was little side shyt she did to that led me to thinking it could be more or that she was interested in me, I was to naive at that point to see the signs and she knew just how to manipulate me to the point were I could be led on.

One of the times she told me she had to go aka(go get her back broke) her father has/had cancer so she said she got a call and it didn't look good and had to rush to the hospital, my dumb ass offered to go with her but she refused and left . . Meanwhile I'm at home sitting up praying to god for a sickness that isn't there for a surgery that isn't happening to go well

I wonder if god was sitting up making the () face while I prayed for an imaginary surgery to go well

Eventually she tried to offer me some pity p*ssy

I hope you didn't accept.

Those entire situations make a mockery of your manhood at a base level. You entertain, show concern, generally just be there for her but she limits her affections to you

and smashes someone else. Its ok if its just some girl you hang with, but when you start doing boyfriend-level shyt and she NEVER puts up the brakes to slow you down, its

utter disrespect.

Same as if a breh is selling dreams and smashing a chick with absolutely no intention to cuff. Her time and emotions are being wasted. On the other hand, men don't even get

the benefit of the regular smashAnd you probably putting money up for some activities. Gotta be willing to cut ladies off completely if they aren't on your team QUICK.

There is always some other chump to replace you in the friendzone, but you don't get back that time you could have spent with a lady that actually likes you.

 

[audemarzz]

That's so fukked up.
Who lies on their sick dying father to run and be a booty call?

I hope you didn't accept.

Those entire situations make a mockery of your manhood at a base level. You entertain, show concern, generally just be there for her but she limits her affections to you

and smashes someone else. Its ok if its just some girl you hang with, but when you start doing boyfriend-level shyt and she NEVER puts up the brakes to slow you down, its

utter disrespect.

Same as if a breh is selling dreams and smashing a chick with absolutely no intention to cuff. Her time and emotions are being wasted. On the other hand, men don't even get

the benefit of the regular smashAnd you probably putting money up for some activities. Gotta be willing to cut ladies off completely if they aren't on your team QUICK.

There is always some other chump to replace you in the friendzone, but you don't get back that time you could have spent with a lady that actually likes you.

I kept asking when I found out, why would you lie about something that serious she just said nothing I guess even she couldn't figure out an excuse for that. and I did turn down the sex; I remember the mood being something like "ohh well I did let your homie get some so why not you too" I felt like shyt but I wasn't that far gone her response to the me declining was akin to "Well don't say I didn't offer"

Weird shyt the people we love

 

[Ashley Banks]

im confused

she was fukking with him and someone thought her response to him was serious.

 

[Pineal Gland]

YOOOOOOOO

 

[Mr. Jiggy Fly]

So it turns out they really are together and she was just clowning.....I guess we can cancel this thread now?

 

[Freedman]

So it turns out they really are together and she was just clowning.....I guess we can cancel this thread now?

Bro nem dropped some crazy friendzone stories so it gotta let it live

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

YOOOOOOOO