How hard is it to walk out of a child’s life after finding out they’re not yours?

[Sterling Archer]

Get a paternity test soon after birth and it won't be a problem

Should be the law that its done at birth. Just like birth certificates and vaccines are required.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

If you're even a bit empathetic, once you're holding a newborn, and watching those lil innocent baby eyes looking up at you, it brings out your protection instincts.Instant bond, really.Can take over your entire being in less than 5 seconds....Until the lil nicca becomes of age, starts growing out a beard, and looking like his real father

 

[keon]

Lol back when I was like 19 a chick tried to tell me I was her child’s father before she even had the baby..I quickly did the math & shut that shyt down for her..IG she didn’t know who the father was cuz she called me the day she had the baby too smh

 

[jeh]

Not hard at all, I'll be the father that stepped up

 

[MR. SNIFLES]

IT'S fukk HER BUT I DON'T THINK I CAN TOTALLY CUT THE KID OFF.

 

[Gwoppo]

@Louisiana Fisher
You in this situation or somebody you know?

 

[Astroslik]

Best of luck to that kid

 

[Rekkapryde]

Happened to a nikka I used to work with…we were on break one day and he was sad as fukk, told me he got a dna on his only son, who he has custody of, and it came back he wasn’t his

the mom lives in another state with other kids, barely checks on the boy but still sends nudes

and the dude who’s supposed to be the real dad, is dead

damn....well. Bio is dead so

 

[Estarossa]

 

[Rekkapryde]

Happened to a dude I know.

Dude has masculine energy, he’s not a pushover or nothing. Grew up with a strong father. You wouldn’t expect this of him.

He was smashing this girl, she lied, went through the whole pregnancy with him. They were together.

Once the baby was born his fam was like nah, go get tested that ain’t your baby.

Come to find out, it wasn’t his. Dude still decided to raise the girl.

Even though he admitted the mom is a bytch and he has to put up with a lot of shyt from her.

And I’m like nikka wtf that’s not even your daughter AND she has the AUDACITY to be disrespectful???

Dude was like nah it’s different, idc what anyone says that’s my lil girl, fukk a paternity test imma raise her like my own, fukk her momma too this is my daughter.

Some people are just built that way I guess, couldn’t be me in a million years.

I get some dudes getting attached, but if you find out immediately after birth? Nah mayne.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I pray that I'll never know

 

[DJSmooth]

Couldn't be me. I'm not signing the birth certificate without a DNA test. Trust women brehs.

 

[BluntTrauma]

Pretty fukkin easy. Have a nice life kid

 

[Kal-El]

Baby needs to take that shyt up with mom's and ask her if she's a proud slut


Nah but on the real it's depends.... New born vs few months/years old. Attachment, bond, relationship. All that's shyt comes in to play.

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

Never been in the situation so its hard to say. It really depends on the situation. Like... if she cheats on me and has a baby, then I'm finding that nikka and taxing him forreal. The mother? fukk her, she for the streets. But nikkas gon' pay.