How Important Is Black Love To You

[At30wecashout]

Oh you were, huh?


Will be good if 50% of black folks marry outside the race? Why would we? Again, humans date/marry who they are around teh most.....go to pre-dom black parts of cities where there are a ton of blacks & you wont see won't see them dating a bunch of white boys/girls

But if a black dude graduates from college and has to accept an engineering job in the sticks of South Dakota where he's around 95% white ppl, what do you expect him to do? He's human....

Maybe he'd marry a black chick if he could find one. You can't call him a c00n for trying to live his life and find some type of companship

Breh, im starting to believe the word "c00n" is a word that embodies moving the goal posts. The way it has been used, any kind of dissension is
considered a grave slight worthy of the word "c00n." I think of where the term came from and it is rarely used in a way befitting of it's ill origin.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

nikkas'll tell you the same thing too

We fight amongst each other, but I promise you this, we must not let outsiders invade our block

 

[TMNT4000]

Why does one have to be a c00n? How does interracial relationships take place if we take this "all other races" stuff?

Interracial relationships are the exception, not the rule, and calling people names for not sweating colorism is played, breh.

If you happen to find someone and they check all the boxes, what is the problem?

Ideally a black woman will fill my every need and she will understand me on a level that most won't. However, the only reason we have

these conversations is because of the oppressors fukking with us. Interracial relationships been a historical mainstay, before this colorism shyt

came into play.

The reason they calling you c00ns is because this thread was about black love and nobody said nothing bad IR but for some reason ya'll came in here with the "color blind" IR bullshyt.

If you wanna IR power to you but take that shyt to other thread.

Oh you were, huh?


Will be good if 50% of black folks marry outside the race? Why would we? Again, humans date/marry who they are around teh most.....go to pre-dom black parts of cities where there are a ton of blacks & you wont see won't see them dating a bunch of white boys/girls

But if a black dude graduates from college and has to accept an engineering job in the sticks of South Dakota where he's around 95% white ppl, what do you expect him to do? He's human....

Maybe he'd marry a black chick if he could find one. You can't call him a c00n for trying to live his life and find some type of companship

Lol, I did not ask you for that shyt, I ask will it be good for the black community if 50% or more dated marry out, not if it was possible or not.

And nikka who cares what a small percentage of black folks living in white areas are doing, they ain't helping us or hurting us, so who gives a shyt.

 

[At30wecashout]

The reason they calling you c00ns is because this thread was about black love and nobody said nothing bad IR but for some reason ya'll came in here with the "color blind" IR bullshyt.

If you wanna IR power to you but take that shyt to other thread.

Breh, I wasn't called a c00n. The fukking thread title is "How imporant is black love to you."

fukk were they supposed to say, "not at all?"
Like they wouldn't have been asked why or called a c00n anyway.
Ya'll moving the goalposts. People can say "It is very important to me because xyz."

Guy says "Love is hard to find period" and suddenly that is a bad thing?

Ya'll buggin if THIS is a fukking topic of contention. Nothing wrong was said.

Edit: Wait, I see some of what you are talking about. However, nothing wrong was said.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

Not important especially since I don't plan to have kids and don't want any.
Limit my options to my own race when my options are limited already? Nah

 

[kayslay]

Oh you were, huh?


Will be good if 50% of black folks marry outside the race? Why would we? Again, humans date/marry who they are around teh most.....go to pre-dom black parts of cities where there are a ton of blacks & you wont see won't see them dating a bunch of white boys/girls

But if a black dude graduates from college and has to accept an engineering job in the sticks of South Dakota where he's around 95% white ppl, what do you expect him to do? He's human....

Maybe he'd marry a black chick if he could find one. You can't call him a c00n for trying to live his life and find some type of companship

So this hypothetical. Black man went his whole life without ever meeting a Black women?
If hes an engineer does he not have means to travel?
Does he have to marry the first white woman that agrees to date him?

 

[kayslay]

Breh, im starting to believe the word "c00n" is a word that embodies moving the goal posts. The way it has been used, any kind of dissension is
considered a grave slight worthy of the word "c00n." I think of where the term came from and it is rarely used in a way befitting of it's ill origin.

Don't you live on chicago? What does that post have to do with you?
That isnt your life, so stop trying to use it as some excuse!

 

[kayslay]

The reason they calling you c00ns is because this thread was about black love and nobody said nothing bad IR but for some reason ya'll came in here with the "color blind" IR bullshyt.

If you wanna IR power to you but take that shyt to other thread.

Lol, I did not ask you for that shyt, I ask will it be good for the black community if 50% or more dated marry out, not if it was possible or not.

And nikka who cares what a small percentage of black folks living in white areas are doing, they ain't helping us or hurting us, so who gives a shyt.

Exactly! Theyre always trying to use these 1 in a million ass examples that dont even apply to them.

 

[At30wecashout]

Don't you live on chicago? What does that post have to do with you?
That isnt your life, so stop trying to use it as some excuse!

Wait what? What does me having to live in Chicago have to do anything?
And what excuse am I making? I am asking why in fairness of the brothers who don't ascribe to "black only" love why
the word c00n is tossed about so flippantly.

I look up the origins of the word, and I wonder has it's meaning suddenly changed.

 

[kayslay]

Wait what? What does me having to live in Chicago have to do anything?
And what excuse am I making? I am asking why in fairness of the brothers who don't ascribe to "black only" love why
the word c00n is tossed about so flippantly.

I look up the origins of the word, and I wonder has it's meaning suddenly changed.

Look at my above post.
You living on chicago have access to black woman is my point. You don't live in some hick town with a 1% Black populace. So why are you trying so hard to identify with that struggle.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

It's the end all be all

Even though I have a white grandparent, I cant see myself with anyone but a black woman

 

[At30wecashout]

Look at my above post.
You living on chicago have access to black woman is my point. You don't live in some hick town with a 1% Black populace. So why are you trying so hard to identify with that struggle.

I am not trying to identify with any struggle, I am asking at what point did it become
ok to call people, someone you would call your own, out of their name. And we aren't talking a bytch,
a p*ssy, something that rolls off the tongue and doesn't mean much, but a c00n.

I take issue with men flagrantly referring to women as bytches or as hoes.
I don't like people throwing around words like faq and taking issue with being called names in kind.
So again, im not trying to identify with anything, I am asking why c00n was thrown about so carelessly.

 

[RTF]

love isnt a color

True but ethnicity has close ties to culture, shared experiences and values. It's not just that we are different colours, we are different full stop. But that's okay.

Black love is pretty important to me. I want to build a strong, loving. family - a black one that started from the bottom that moved on up to be more specific

 

[RTF]

Just making black babies is not enough and often times in the black community was out of lust not love and sometimes not even a relationship just a hit and quit. So yeah just making black babies isn't going to help but a black FAMILY unit will help the black community because you need families to pass down wealth and build pride and it's proven kids raised in two parent house hold fair a better a chance.

My thing is I hate that most black kids are born in broken homes with no family unit. So yeah to ME its nice to see successful black men and women with their heads on straight bringing black children into this world instead of half black kids getting that luxury while full black kids are being born to thugs or thot mothers. Because of that my wife and kids will be black .

I'll be honest - when I see or meet brothers and sisters I respect, I always hope they have a black (at least mixed) partner. Partly because it confirms they most likely "real" to me but also because of the above.

 

[TMNT4000]

at the people making excuses saying is hard to find love staying in your own race when despite black people in the U.S. are 47 million(more people in Canada and few other countries) and are the 2nd largest race in the planet(behind East Asians).

But as soon they step out they marry the first non black person they meet or exclusively date non black people till they marry one.