How is not having kids selfish?

[ba'al]

I don’t have these problems. I was married when I had my kid. I even raised a kid who mother clearly shouldnt have had kids. so yeah there are people who have kids who shouldn’t.

That's good for you bruh. But growing up in the hood and being former military. I had to parent the parents. How can i be selfish and not responsible if I'm helping the parents parent. GTFOH Even married couples that had their kids together stay bytching and going back and forth with one another. I ain't putting up with that. My life is little to no stress. Most my stress comes from people in relationships or with kids trauma dumping their bs onto me and asking for life advice.

Because we are here to repopulate

Here to repopulate, nikka says who? I'm here to work, be charitable, and live life to the best of my ability.

 

[Orange cream shake]

That's good for you bruh. But growing up in the hood and being former military. I had to parent the parents. How can i be selfish and not responsible if I'm helping the parents parent. GTFOH Even married couples that had their kids together stay bytching and going back and forth with one another. I ain't putting up with that. My life is little to no stress. Most my stress comes from people in relationships or with kids trauma dumping their bs onto me and asking for life advice.



Here to repopulate, nikka says who? I'm here to work, be charitable, and live life to the best of my ability.

im not sure why you are quoting me like my original post was directed at you. I don’t know you. My post don’t even reference people being selfish. I don’t think it’s selfish to not have kids. I said I wish shytty people wouldn’t have kids.

 

[ba'al]

By strict definition it's selfish in that you only have to worry about yourself. Selfish isn't always a bad thing,.

SO if I don't want to pass sickle cell to my child it;s because I'm selfish.

Yeah not wanting a child to suffer is very selfish. Mean while all the parents who want them a mini me or someone to take care of them when they are older are selfless saints we should admire.

 

[ba'al]

im not sure why you are quoting me

Because you responded back to my post.

like my original post was directed at you.

I made the thread and thought what you said was worth dicussing. Feel free to exit the thread and put me on ignore anytime dude. Like TD jakes said you can log off.

I don’t think it’s selfish to not have kids.

Good.

I said I wish shytty people wouldn’t have kids.

I agree.

 

[Orange cream shake]

Because you responded back to my post.

I made the thread and thought what you said was worth dicussing. Feel free to exit the thread and put me on ignore anytime dude. Like TD jakes said you can log off.

Good.

I agree.

Lmao. I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings. it not that serious. I’m bored and my husband working OT So I got time. Based on how you responded to my post, I’m going to assume you regret your decision to not have kids and you out here deflecting. it’s ok. I’m sure you can be a father figure to those parents and their kids you have to give advice too. Have a good night!!

 

[ba'al]

Lmao. I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings. it not that serious.

You didn't bruh. But If you thought you hurt my feelings why would you ask why I am responding to a post you made in my thread? That's a typical narcissist move to incite, accuse then play dumb. That shyt aint go work on me dude.

I’m bored and my husband working OT So I got time

That's nice. Being around you must be a damn burden. Dude married a flaming narcissist. I feel sorry for dude as well as ya'll kids if this is who he got. On here talking to nikkas while he out working OT. Then you argue semantics. I said "shytty" not selfish. Like most people colloquially don't equate all selfish people to be shytty.

I’m going to assume you regret your decision to not have kids and you out here deflecting.

Poor Gaslight attempt. This is the best i ever felt in my life.

deflecting.

This is a red herring and projecting litterally every point you made I have addressed. But when I address them you ask me why I am quoting you. You will spin doctor whatever I say into a negative like most narcissist.

it’s ok. I’m sure you can be a father figure to those parents and their kids you have to give advice too.

Lol at this weak attempt of shading me. This is sad dude.

Have a good night!!

You have a good night as well orange cream shake. I feel sorry for your husband if this is how you carrying yourself in dialogue.

 

[Orange cream shake]

You didn't bruh. But If you thought you hurt my feelings why would you ask why I am responding to a post you made in my thread? That's a typical narcissist move to incite, accuse then play dumb. That shyt aint go work on me dude.


That's nice. Being around you must be a damn burden. Dude married a flaming narcissist. I feel sorry for dude as well as ya'll kids if this is who he got. On here talking to nikkas while he out working OT. Then you argue semantics. I said "shytty" not selfish. Like most people colloquially don't equate all selfish people to be shytty.

Poor Gaslight attempt. This is the best i ever felt in my life.

This is a red herring and projecting litterally every point you made I have addressed. But when I address them you ask me why I am quoting you. You will spin doctor whatever I say into a negative like most narcissist.

Lol at this weak attempt of shading me. This is sad dude.

You have a good night as well orange cream shake. I feel sorry for your husband if this is how you carrying yourself in dialogue.

 

[ba'al]

Doubling down. Flaming Narc.

 

[Heafcliffe]

Having a child is a duty
It is not for legacy

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Had an extended family member try and come for me and my lady for not having children (yet). This miserable wench has 6 kids, been married since 21 and tried to call me selfish.

She looks worn out and battered from life and she’s only 32. I just pity her because she’s mad we’re free and not tied down. Meanwhile, her whole identity are her children.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Had an extended family member try and come for me and my lady for not having children (yet). This miserable wench has 6 kids, been married since 21 and tried to call me selfish.

She looks worn out and battered from life and she’s only 32. I just pity her because she’s mad we’re free and not tied down. Meanwhile, her whole identity are her children.

You will not be a good father and deep down you know that.

how long you think you got till you disappoint this new bytch?

 

[The ADD]

 

[ThrobbingHood]

You will not be a good father and deep down you know that.

how long you think you got till you disappoint this new bytch?

Hating my father.

In fact I would hire a pilot to write in the sky every week to remind the world what a bytch ass nikka he is.

 

[ba'al]

Still childfree. Still vasectomy gang.

Still charitable.

Aye it's funny your up'd this thread I was talking to a older gentlemen who's a few years from retiring and he was telling me how his kids don't even visit. One of his daughters is gay and she don't talk to him at all.

I bring that up for all the parents who think just because you have kids someone will automatically take care of you in your own age.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

Thats actually funny.

Why that Dominican bytch didn’t want you as a husband?