How long could you last in a sexless relationship?

SheWantTheD

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That's scary :mjcry:
Society doesn't teach sexual discipline.

Especially with things like porn so readily accessible and rampant, people out here are gonna try and get their fix one way or another. I think however that cheating on your mate when y'all are pregnant is the worst, because she needs you more than ever. A man gotta be working triple overtime when his woman is pregnant both in and out of the home.
 

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If you built with that person and grew together and as an individual then I don't see it as a waste of time. Sex is not the focal point of a relationship, especially when two people are focused on bringing in income to support their family, raising their kids and truly being in their children's lives.

I find it interesting how so many people (not saying you) put sex at such a high level of importance within a relationship while disregarding more important things that lead to long-lasting, successful, positive and loving relationships.

Good Sex is 10% of a good relationship

Bad sex becomes 90% of any good or bad

It's an odd thing
 

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Good Sex is 10% of a good relationship

Bad sex becomes 90% of any good or bad

It's an odd thing
It's definitely important. And thing is people need to communicate and express their wants and desires. Don't just expect the man or woman to automatically know what they should do to turn you on. Also if y'all aren't compatible sexually (someone's into something while the other isn't), then y'all should most likely go your separate ways.

Gotta agree and work together.
 

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The D didn't work.....
Not gonna lie when I first smashed i didn't have a lot sensation from jacking it dry
If he couldn't give up porn and jacking for some months to get his D back working then should've threw him in the bushes
Or he could be on the dl like breh said :yeshrug:
 

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Don't listen to him. The right guy will wait.
I didn't tell any lies. I did not say that there aren't men out there that aren't willing to wait until marriage. I said many men cheat during pregnancy and that's the truth. One of my mentors and his wife does consultations and has helped many families and marriages over the years, and he said this is a big issue. A lot of men step out during pregnancy if they aren't getting it from their wife.
 
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