How long could you last in a sexless relationship?

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I'm only celibate because I'm not in a relationship. Otherwise I want and need my man's dikk all the time or I'm a fukking bytch and will investigate on his ass and maybe leave him.
 

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If you built with that person and grew together and as an individual then I don't see it as a waste of time. Sex is not the focal point of a relationship, especially when two people are focused on bringing in income to support their family, raising their kids and truly being in their children's lives.

I find it interesting how so many people (not saying you) put sex at such a high level of importance within a relationship while disregarding more important things that lead to long-lasting, successful, positive and loving relationships.

Remind me to +rep you if it ever returns.
 

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you aren't getting it now tho right? So how can you only last 2-3 days? They go to the bushes after that? Are you the aggressor?
In a relationship, I expect it as much as possible.

Currently I am not in a relationship and don't entertain one nightstands.

If I'm in a relationship, I trust him and I'm attached (comfortable)...

If its not a good reason, I'll leave or suspect he's cheating (if I am unsure with no proof) and talk to someone else (for emotional comfort at least).

A lot of the times I am. But I'm flexible. I can be aggressive or submissive.
 

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In a relationship, I expect it as much as possible.

Currently I am not in a relationship and don't entertain one nightstands.

If I'm in a relationship, I trust him and I'm attached (comfortable)...

If its not a good reason, I'll leave or suspect he's cheating (if I am unsure with no proof) and talk to someone else (for emotional comfort at least).

A lot of the times I am. But I'm flexible. I can be aggressive or submissive.
But within 2-3 days you don't know the dude... odds are y'all ain't even exclusive yet.
 

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But within 2-3 days you don't know the dude... odds are y'all ain't even exclusive yet.
I'm talking about if we are in a relationship. It takes a long time to even get to date me or fukk me. So I will know a lot about you until it even gets to that point.

I'm referring to if I am in a relationship and my man withdraws sex from me period.

Esp if we have a routine.
 

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I'm talking about if we are in a relationship. It takes a long time to even get to date me or fukk me. So I will know a lot about you until it even gets to that point.

I'm referring to if I am in a relationship and my man withdraws sex from me period.

Esp if we have a routine.
Oh I see. But that's different than someone you are dating, get in a relationship and never had sex with.

The way you make it seem, is if y'all are already having sex and he just stops for some reason.
 

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Oh I see. But that's different than someone you are dating, get in a relationship and never had sex with.

The way you make it seem, is if y'all are already having sex and he just stops for some reason.
Yup.

Now just dating, it don't matter to me because I haven't committed to you. I would actually prefer we not have sex.

But once we are official and we have a routine and that becomes fukked up with no good enough (stress, work) reason, I may talk to another guy. Just being honest.

I don't like tension so I'm not the type to go to bed mad, so if there's attitudes and shyt from him still, that's his fault.
 

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Not too long. 3-6 months tops. Even if dude was paralyzed from the waist down, he still got fingers and a mouth.

Ain't no reason to not be having sex, when hit relieves stress and makes you grow closer. Angry sex, break up/make up sex, morning sex, sleepy sex, spontaneous quickie. Sex for every occasion.
 

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His dikk didn't work due to porn addiction and over masturbation
He was looking at homo porn.
When I was addicted my dikk would still get hard for some p*ssy

Yeah or dude was watching something very unusual. That's how it be, I like my porn amateur real black women that are like the chicks I smash
 
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