Forever…
Or they like the fact that the option is always there.
This is something a lot of SM don’t think about or aren’t honest about…
So unless there’s a divorce or buddy is completely out the picture, hard to take them seriously. This dude is going to forever be in the picture and even if they aren’t fukking, he is going to have an imprint on the next relationship in other ways like not picking up his kids when agreed upon, not handling financial obligations, can never go full “no contact”, etc.
nikkas with shyt going for themselves not gonna be trying to deal with that forever