How long does it take for you to trust someone?

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At what point in time are you like....okay I can trust them now? What is something that they have to specifically show you?

trust is earned.
 

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"Look here, I'm what they call a true hustler
cause nikka if I ain't know you since I was like six then I don't trust ya" - X

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When they share something secret about themselves with me, and I do the same. Mutually assured destruction and the like...
 

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There's levels to it, imo. Time and just being able to observe a person's general character. I let them in, seep slowly with filters. Start with a sieve, then a strainer, and so on and so forth til we're thick as thieves. Truthfully, I can't remember to this day how exactly I bonded with my best friends, can't recall a specific moment, you just have those feelings and when it's backed up by actions and honesty, it's great.

Also look at their relationships/how they treat people, or explain how things didn't work out with others. If they can't be real/accountable with themselves, I prolly won't trust ya/3stacks
 

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Can you be trusted?
thats actually a great question

i cant say yes or no unless im in the situation

based on the things i did in the past i would say no

if you not close to me then i dont give a fukk about you
 
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