How long should a man wait for a woman?

[Dixon Cider]

So chicks that wait are playing games but chicks that don't wait are thots undeserving of marriage and respect?

That's why I just keep me bout a dozen nikkas on retainer.

nikkas play too many games and don't know what they want.

Im tryin have me a girlfriend. No drama only try to build and mold, sadly I know deep down shes nowhere on my level mentally or temperment wise but eh i'm sick of games and the chase. I mean it was once " whats up with her?" To actually developing something so i'll wait or whatever but not forever

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I read the title.. charge her to the game.

 

[InDePickWest]

Im tryin have me a girlfriend. No drama only try to build and mold, sadly I know deep down shes nowhere on my level mentally or temperment wise but eh i'm sick of games and the chase. I mean it was once " whats up with her?" To actually developing something so i'll wait or whatever but not forever

Tell her what it is and if she dont respond, move on. Plenty of chicks that want bfs right now

 

[cam>]

What's the logic in this as a woman? I thought only guys thought like this.

Am I misinterpreting his post? I thought he was saying she was "taking it slow" and stalling on being in a relationship with him. Which sounds to me like she has more important matters/people to spend energy on. That's why I encouraged him to move on.

But I guess she's just making him wait for sex? In which case, op, many women don't feel comfortable sleeping with a man they don't know well enough or trust. Maybe she doesn't yet trust you, and that is something that will take time to develop.

 

[Typical Simp]

A real man would wait for over a decade to show he's for real if that's what the woman wanted.

 

[saint25225]

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[old_timer]

one year out of college i had met this woman
we went out and had a good time
she set it up where i would come "spend the night"
(she was clearing out her roommates, was gonna cook, etc
she told me her preferred brand of condoms,etc
then her sister died.. (for real, it was in the newspaper)

anyway, i spent 3-4 more weeks talking to her
all this intermittent crying, she was really struggling
then i just kind of wished her well and let it go

reason being?? i didn't really know her yet
we had one good night and then 7-8 meets of 1-2 hours
filled with awkward tension

women need to lean on their existing friends/relations in a crisis
not some man they just met
i probably could have coaxed her into sex but.. why??
it wouldn't have felt right anyway, and there are always other women READY to date

after that i decided first 3 months of relationship are just for fun and getting to know each other

so my advice is file her under the "not ready to date" category
and wish her well

 

[At30wecashout]

Something I have learned: Chicks that like you go all in. Its only after you guys are so wrapped up in the shyt that you have to talk about slowing it down
so you don't burn out. If its slow from the startShould probably just leave her alone. Her emotions ain't there...emotions, for them, are everything.

 

[InDePickWest]

Am I misinterpreting his post? I thought he was saying she was "taking it slow" and stalling on being in a relationship with him. Which sounds to me like she has more important matters/people to spend energy on. That's why I encouraged him to move on.

But I guess she's just making him wait for sex? In which case, op, many women don't feel comfortable sleeping with a man they don't know well enough or trust. Maybe she doesn't yet trust you, and that is something that will take time to develop.

I think we both misunderstood his post.
I took it as she doesn't want to have sex so soon, in which I just chalked it up to fukkboys being fukkboys.

But if it's he's being clear about wanting a RELATIONSHIP..it's different. Women have trust issues and rightfully so because a lot of nikkas claim to want relationships to fukk and dog a chick. Taking it slow is the best thing a woman can do to preserve her heart and reputation.

Men don't have to worry

 

[Ziggiy]

Nothing wrong with taking it slow but it's up to you to make sure you gauge her interests abc make sure they are pure or if she's full of shyt. I've had women on the "take it slow" tip that would still come over, kick it, even cook for me, cuddling and all that. We just didn't have sex until like a month in. Women like that are trying to be "wifey" status and I respect that, even believe that it can make the relationship stronger.


Then you have your women who play games, entertain other men, are constantly "confused" about their feelings, and generally are just stringing you along. Those are "Thots" and should be shown the bushes with the swiftness

 

[Ziggiy]

I learned my lesson on waiting on a chick to give up the draws. Big waste of time only to find out she had genital herpes.

She could have saved us both the time, money, and energy by telling me up front. Instead she wasted 6 months of our lives only for me to feel jaded that she took so long to tell be what's up.

And had the audacity to get mad I was smashing other women in the mean time.

Well she was honorable enough to tell me instead of not giving a Damn and just spreading the shyt.

Breh I feel you but PLEASE be thankful that she did tell you because I personally know a chick (I've told this story before) who caught Herpes and won't tell ANY guy she lets smash. Dudes been going up in her raw and shyt and never know they could catch that shyt

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

What do you want with her? I notice this question is never asked. Do you want a relationship and that's the reason why she wants to wait? Or do you just want some p*ssy.
If it's the former then just talk to her. It's common sense for her not to wanna jump into anything if she just went thru some stuff.

If you just want p*ssy and nothing long-term, lmao i don't blame her for waiting. A bunch of horny dry-dikk dudes will tell u she's playing games. But if she's decent, she doesn't want a carousel of dyck running in and out her life. There's literally no benefit to a woman living this way and she's smart not to just rush sleeping with you. I can't even imagine...

Anyhoo, just date her and enjoy she company and see if she offers something you may want in the long run. Meanwhile her decision to be celibate during this time isn't ur decision so hump elsewhere to get the nut off and enjoy spending time with her.
Or just let her go if u don't feel like investing right now.

 

[O.T.I.S.]

5 minutes...


Im not waiting on shyt

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

we don't wait for hoes in Harlem

we got options over here brodie

 

[Max Power]

Op is in so much denial

"I'm hoping for some snuggling at our next meeting "