How long should you know someone before vacationing out of country with them?

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Hard to say, I’d want to know more about their medical and physical health before going abroad with someone though.
 

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shyt, I’ll go after a month of dating her to get a feel BUT…we paying for our own flights and going half on the Telly.

Matter a fact, we goin half on everything the whole trip.

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Of course there's no "right" answer to this but even still.
It's not about length of time knowing each other. The key is yall have to be on the same page about sex. When I've gone on a trip anywhere with a woman and we're sexually involved things go smoothly. But when it looks like a trip that will involve sex, but then that doesn't happen, there's usually problems. This is all true regardless of if we've known each other for years or just a few weeks.
 

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I remember a thread here where someone said you shouldn’t travel with a woman until you are married to her
 

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3-6 months if she's a baddie and you see future potential as a actually wifey type
 

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It's not about length of time knowing each other. The key is yall have to be on the same page about sex. When I've gone on a trip anywhere with a woman and we're sexually involved things go smoothly. But when it looks like a trip that will involve sex, but then that doesn't happen, there's usually problems. This is all true regardless of if we've known each other for years or just a few weeks.

True.

I wouldn’t go out of town with a girl if we haven’t broken the physical barrier aka sex though.

To answer OP’s question I’ve gone out of town within 2-3 months of dating but usually we were already friends and comfortable before we started dating. I think it’s all about the feels
 
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6 months to a year

Ya’ll should know each other’s temperaments by then and have properly gauged your compatibility levels. Going on trips with anyone, including family, friends, lovers or whatever, should be about spending time in a nice location and enjoying one another’s company. If me and a woman can’t be on the same page about important things within 6 months to a year then we don’t need to be dealing with another, let alone jet setting across the country
 

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It depends on the type of trip

- If it's a cruise or a quick 1 week trip, it doesn't matter. Could have known them for 3 weeks I don't care

- If it's a long trip that involves me traveling and meeting my relatives, or some type of work trip that will take a month or more, then nah. Can't trust them


Oh, and if it's a road trip and I don't know you.... hell no :pachaha:
 

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You should be getting the ass whenever you want, and have spent nights with her without her annoying you. That could be 2 weeks, could be 2 years.
 

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As a man, I feel like this question varies. For women, they should probably wait longer due to it being a safety issue.

Men should be cautious too, but I feel like we would handle that situation better, idk

I gotta homie who flew to a girl he was talking to country (Canada) a month after we met her in Canada during a trip, then the next month she came over here for a week lmao I told that dude he was a dummy for that, he hated every day of it.
 
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