How many dates before sex? SPIN Reddit Brehette Edition

[Dameon Farrow]

3 is low for a dude. 19 is an average for folks in their 20s. And always has been. Some of you live under a rock I swear. These females get it in and they are getting it in with men whose body count goes right up with theirs. Come on now.

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Yeah this is fake

 

[BigMoneyGrip]

Most women will give it up within the first month if she likes you.

shyt earlier than that

 

[TEH]

He’s not only a chump but a mark, a herb, a Poindexter, an idiot and a sucker. I wish him all the best.

@CouldntBeMeTho

 

[mag357]

I been stopped going on dates....
A longggg time ago.

I don't even eat out.

It's harder to even get sex from a bytch out on a date.
Get that bytch to your house....

A bytch will eat that dinner food. Now u gotta persuade her to come back to your spot...
She gonna give u the "I gotta do something in the morning" bit...
And take the dinner leftovers to big john house. So she can suck him off and get pounded out..
He'll eat them leftovers when he done tho

 

[Illuminatos]

So after 12 dates in 3 months she’s letting him feel in her but not fukk? What kind of middle school shyt is this?

 

[Ashley Banks]

Women need to stop being so open with men knowing damn well they gonna expect the same access.

right she just kicks him when he’s down and tell him he’s not only number 20 but he has has to wait way longer than everyone else.

 

[Neuromancer]

Don't deal with what you don't want to deal with. If I was dude I would bounce.

 

[The Radiant One]

Classic alpha fux beta bux situation

Body count at 19 his at 3

3 months...12 dates....no sex


Which one of you is getting used for dinner like this?




On the real She just ain't feeling breh like that she’s playin dense though. 19 bodies and you don’t know when men expect sex? Yeah right.

12 dates so that means he has spent $1200 and not gotten any p*ssy.

 

[KidJSoul]

Irritating. I get it’s your body so you make the rules and you can change how long you want someone to wait but I don’t get how females don’t understand that only making the guy they want a relationship with wait longer than everyone else is stupid. Anyone with common sense is gonna feel like they’re being played, you decided to sleep with other guys quickly but you’re making him wait. Your body count is 19, MOST guys aren’t going to take you seriously no matter what and making them wait isn’t going to change that. And if he was seriously interested, you thinking he’s the lame that should wait to be #20 would probably scare him away.

“Oh she fukked 19 guys on the first night and is making me wait, she’s definitely the one” NO guy has ever thought that

Thank you.

Not to mention that she's running his pockets empty on dinner dates

And the reality is that most dudes won't care about a woman's body count if she doesn't make him work harder/take more time than other guys, and brings a lot to the table

The only reason why dudes even care about body count is because in so many relationships (not all, but a lot) the guy has to do more to "prove himself" compared to the woman, so we get upset if other guys got that thang without doing shyt

 

[KidJSoul]

On 2nd thought (and reading replies) this is a troll. Especially at the "I told him my body count was 19."

Let's pretend this is really happening, more than likely it's the dude posting this not wanting to get clowned for it.



Look, most men think the "wait" portion is fine. 100% fine.

But, understand that comes with too more issues;

1. You're not allowing him to "wait" to spend $$$ on dates. And I'm sure none of those 12 are coffee for $4 total.
2. Sex is a normal need for adults. So he's involuntary celibate because you need more money spent on you to build "trust."

Like you said; it's the woman's body, but, these are weird ass standards for a man you want a relationship with.

Yeah she's using you basically

 

[GoAggieGo.]

If this is real, she messed up telling him her body count; especially with the intentions of making him wait.

I can’t give an exact number on how long id wait, but I would’ve been gone. I ain’t boo boo the fool.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

If this is real, she messed up telling him her body count; especially with the intentions of making him wait.

I can’t give an exact number on how long id wait, but I would’ve been gone. I ain’t boo boo the fool.

women these days are straight up about it. They are sexually liberated. I remember at 21 this chic was 20 and told me her count was 14 at the time. Old flame of mine. (By now I wouldn’t be surprised if it was 30+)

I spoke about it in the OG thread but we’re older now but i was in her city a couple months ago and we met up to chop it up.

She made her current dude wait a month and they went on about 3-4 dates a week. The switcheroo these women pull as their biological clock starts to scream is hilarious. Like I clipped second date when you were slim and 20 and youre almost 30, chubby and got bruh taking you out every other day for a month. Dudes are getting SWINDLED out here.

 

[The Radiant One]

women these days are straight up about it. They are sexually liberated. I remember at 21 this chic was 20 and told me her count was 14 at the time. Old flame of mine. (By now I wouldn’t be surprised if it was 30+)

I spoke about it in the OG thread but we’re older now but i was in her city a couple months ago and we met up to chop it up.

She made her current dude wait a month and they went on about 3-4 dates a week. The switcheroo these women pull as their biological clock starts to scream is hilarious. Like I clipped second date when you were slim and 20 and youre almost 30, chubby and got bruh taking you out every other day for a month. Dudes are getting SWINDLED out here.

This is facts I know this as a fact. Men are expected to pay such an exorbanate price. Many women think that they can get presents like a Birkin bag or so and they look at Instagram and feel like they should be treated as Queens.

 

[Dynamite James]

shyt earlier than that

I did say WITHIN the month