How many dates before sex? SPIN Reddit Brehette Edition

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1. Don't put all your eggs in one basket
2. Don't panhandle for sex
3. Even if you not smashing, the physical side of the relationship should develop as time goes on.
4. If she's acting like smashing is going to be some life changing event, you might want to consider bushing her.
That usually means that she considers sex the start of an exclusive relationship and will expect you to act accordingly.
 

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If it’s real yeah sucks for the guy, he’s only been with 3 women. Why does the internet hate women so much?
 

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Irritating. I get it’s your body so you make the rules and you can change how long you want someone to wait but I don’t get how females don’t understand that only making the guy they want a relationship with wait longer than everyone else is stupid. Anyone with common sense is gonna feel like they’re being played, you decided to sleep with other guys quickly but you’re making him wait. Your body count is 19, MOST guys aren’t going to take you seriously no matter what and making them wait isn’t going to change that. And if he was seriously interested, you thinking he’s the lame that should wait to be #20 would probably scare him away.

“Oh she fukked 19 guys on the first night and is making me wait, she’s definitely the one” NO guy has ever thought that :dead:
 

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I mean I don't blame her. He should have moved on after the third date with no intimacy. Not that is the be all and end all, but for me sex is a significant part of my relationships. Why should I be wasting time with someone I have no sexual compatibility with?

We have kissed and I've let him feel on me but I am not comfortable having sex yet.

AKA she’s not feeling him like that. But thanks for dinner. I feel most women know if a man is sexually interesting to her after a first date. And will be open to sex, if the situation presents itself.

If his bringing it up and still isn’t getting buns that should tell him something. It may not be what he wants to hear but hopefully he comes to a realisation.

Also once again if you’re taking women out for ‘dinner dates’ in 2021 in which you’re paying for all of it, you can only blame yourself if she takes advantage of that.

You want to know how much a woman is really into you? Start off small with coffee and walks.

Not dinners at restaurants.
 

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don't even have to go on the thread to know what the reddit simps are saying
 

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Irritating. I get it’s your body so you make the rules and you can change how long you want someone to wait but I don’t get how females don’t understand that only making the guy they want a relationship with wait longer than everyone else is stupid. Anyone with common sense is gonna feel like they’re being played, you decided to sleep with other guys quickly but you’re making him wait. Your body count is 19, MOST guys aren’t going to take you seriously no matter what and making them wait isn’t going to change that. And if he was seriously interested, you thinking he’s the lame that should wait to be #20 would probably scare him away.

“Oh she fukked 19 guys on the first night and is making me wait, she’s definitely the one” NO guy has ever thought that :dead:
Women need to stop being so open with men knowing damn well they gonna expect the same access.
 

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On 2nd thought (and reading replies) this is a troll. Especially at the "I told him my body count was 19."

Let's pretend this is really happening, more than likely it's the dude posting this not wanting to get clowned for it.

Irritating. I get it’s your body so you make the rules and you can change how long you want someone to wait but I don’t get how females don’t understand that only making the guy they want a relationship with wait longer than everyone else is stupid. Anyone with common sense is gonna feel like they’re being played, you decided to sleep with other guys quickly but you’re making him wait. Your body count is 19, MOST guys aren’t going to take you seriously no matter what and making them wait isn’t going to change that. And if he was seriously interested, you thinking he’s the lame that should wait to be #20 would probably scare him away.

“Oh she fukked 19 guys on the first night and is making me wait, she’s definitely the one” NO guy has ever thought that :dead:

Look, most men think the "wait" portion is fine. 100% fine.

But, understand that comes with too more issues;
  1. You're not allowing him to "wait" to spend $$$ on dates. And I'm sure none of those 12 are coffee for $4 total.
  2. Sex is a normal need for adults. So he's involuntary celibate because you need more money spent on you to build "trust."
Like you said; it's the woman's body, but, these are weird ass standards for a man you want a relationship with.
 
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