how many dates until you're fukking?

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I don't watch football, breh. References went over my head

basically...going well means you playing it safe...

going for the kill means you made some moves..

If a broad has kids,no way in hell you shouldnt be aggressive in getting at her when going out...

The problem is your going after females with no kids who are usually looking for long term shyt...Thats why your not making traction...Your trying to fukk,when they looking for something stable..

Women with kids will be quicker to fukk even if they are looking for something stable...Simply because they think they can get you...

Women with kids who make less than 40k is the way to go...

If you get that Obama yes we can pin,your p*ssy getting chances will increase heavily..
 

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why is he too invested in the vagina?

is 3-5 dates too many?
Vagina doesn't pay bills or rent. Spending that much time going back and forth with random chicken heads is not what's hot.

Any dude saying 3-5 dates in 2013 is hustling backwards when it comes to wimmin.

I have a friend that can't keep his nose out of his phone because he's having endless small-talk convos with countless chicks. Not a hot look.
 

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Vagina doesn't pay bills or rent. Spending that much time going back and forth with random chicken heads is not what's hot.

Any dude saying 3-5 dates in 2013 is hustling backwards when it comes to wimmin.

I have a friend that can't keep his nose out of his phone because he's having endless small-talk convos with countless chicks. Not a hot look.
I've been hustling backwards breh :sadcam:

I went out on like 3 dates with a bytch that wanted something longterm but i just wanted to smash. Didn't get shyt out of it but
making out and sucking on her titties:snoop:

i hate wasted time, not hustling backwards in 2014 anymore.

is your friend at least smashing these bytches he's having text convos with?
 

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chicks want to give a guy puss the first day they meet. They want to meet that guy. they want to feel that rush. that risk. "the chemistry was so intense". You just have to believe in yourself cause if you don't think you're that dude, why would she think it. This is no mystical shyt either. And no, i'm not saying i fukk chicks on the first meet or anything like that. what i'm saying is, you have to believe in yourself and believe in your worth. If you want to fukk on the first date, don't settle. Make your move and if she fronts or simply not with it, tell her you're not on the same page as her and part ways. Don't play yourself. If you want to fukk on the second date, same process. if you want to fukk without a date, same process. there is no "rules" when it comes to this. we all play the game but only wrong thing you can do is playing the game while risking something you can't afford to lose (and that will be different things to everyone. for some that will be money, for others it's time, or energy). Another thing, don't let women or lames shame you into thinking you're cheap/bitter/not a real man/insecure for going after what you want.
 

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just pulled her shirt down and sucked on them until she said "it's too early, and we should slow down"

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if you haven't already, listen to all the episodes of the Black Phillip Show. she's doing what she's suppose to do by asking you to stop. She doesn't want to seem easy. it's your job to give her the option to continue. By going along with what she said, you're not providing her with an option that leads to her getting fukked.

here's what you should have done if you still wanted to fukk (i personally would have stopped cause that teasing shyt is not for me). you should have told her "listen, we're just going with the vibe here, there's no going to fast or too slow...if you're telling me you're not into what we're doing right now then we'll stop but as far as i'm concerned, i'm feeling the vibe right now. it's up to you if you want to go against the vibe at this point..."

something like that but in your own words. by saying that you are giving her the option to continue without being a hypocrite even though she said herself she wanted to stop. you're allowing her to pretend like you convinced her (they're not dumb...). It's like at first she said "this is not appropriate". Your response is "not continuing is inappropriate". and if there's one thing a lot of women are scared to death of, it's being inappropriate in a situation. you really have to help her feel that way. if she still fronts after that :camby:


EDIT: also, using words like "vibe" and "flow" works on certain types of girls. it's the type of word that really fits in anywhere and can mean many things. they eat it up because who really wants to go against "the vibe" or "the flow"? it's one of those air-filled concepts that don't really mean anything when you think about it. Works mostly on "I'm spiritual/real/direct/do what i feel" type of chicks.
 
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If a girl let you fukk day one she lettin EVERYBODY (that she find attractive) fukk day one

I don't want a future with any female that would let me hit without even really knowing me

If I just wanted some p*ssy though, those are the women I would go to first, no time wasted
 

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if you haven't already, listen to all the episodes of the Black Phillip Show. she's doing what she's suppose to do by asking you to stop. She doesn't want to seem easy. it's your job to give her the option to continue. By going along with what she said, you're not providing her with an option that leads to her getting fukked.

here's what you should have done if you still wanted to fukk (i personally would have stopped cause that teasing shyt is not for me). you should have told her "listen, we're just going with the vibe here, there's no going to fast or too slow...if you're telling me you're not into what we're doing right now then we'll stop but as far as i'm concerned, i'm feeling the vibe right now. it's up to you if you want to go against the vibe at this point..."

something like that but in your own words. by saying that you are giving her the option to continue without being a hypocrite even though she said herself she wanted to stop. you're allowing her to pretend like you convinced her (they're not dumb...). It's like at first she said "this is not appropriate". Your response is "not continuing is inappropriate". and if there's one thing a lot of women are scared to death of, it's being
inappropriate in a situation. you really have to help her feel that way. if she still fronts after that :camby:


EDIT: also, using words like "vibe" and "flow" works on certain types of girls. it's the type of word that really fits in anywhere and can mean many things. they eat it up because who really wants to go against "the vibe" or "the flow"? it's one of those air-filled concepts that don't really mean anything when you think about it. Works mostly on "I'm spiritual/real/direct/do what i feel" type of chicks.
I did similar to the bolded, that's crazy that you mentioned that.

she dropped the, "i want to do it but i think its too early" :beli:

keep in mind a huge caveat here is that her roommates and friends are all SLUTS, my homie smashed one of her best friends. And my other boy smashed her other close friend who is :scusthov::scusthov:. I got bytches on deck and i already dropped this chick as of last week, I'm just wondering if i dropped her to early :noah: or did the right thing :lawd:

I just turned 22 this bytch is 20 and i have no time for the games or bullshyt, I'm on my paper and success chase (graduating this fall with honors) and i'm applying to grad school next fall, so I'm quick to throw bytches to the bushes due to the opportunity cost of the whole dating scene.

The only bad thing is she works at my school gym and I'm forced to see this bytch all the time because her section faces the workout area :snoop:. She already told her coworkers (who one i wanted to smash) that we were talking :pacspit:. Since i haven't text her and i have been ignoring her for over two weeks I'm sure she'll talk some shyt about me to them.

You should have kept sucking and kissing..

Women telling you to stop means nothing if she's feeling you...

Now if she pulled your face off and pulled her bra back up,then nikka stop...lol
That wasn't the first time tho

we went to this party and during the end she was talmbout "she's sleepy" i was like we should go to bed together then (implying were going to fukk) she blushed, smiled, turned away for a sec then said the same thing. Such as "it's too early" and she even said "i think people who are together should go to sleep together" is she implying that she wants me to be in a relationship in order to smash? :ohhh:
 

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I did similar to the bolded, that's crazy that you mentioned that.

she dropped the, "i want to do it but i think its too early" :beli:

keep in mind a huge caveat here is that her roommates and friends are all SLUTS, my homie smashed one of her best friends. And my other boy smashed her other close friend who is :scusthov::scusthov:. I got bytches on deck and i already dropped this chick as of last week, I'm just wondering if i dropped her to early :noah: or did the right thing :lawd:



That wasn't the first time tho

we went to this party and during the end she was talmbout "she's sleepy" i was like we should go to bed together then (implying were going to fukk) she blushed, smiled, turned away for a sec then said the same thing. Such as "it's too early" and she even said "i think people who are together should go to sleep together" is she implying that she wants me to be in a relationship in order to smash? :ohhh:
you're sucking on the titties and then she asks you to stop. you did the right thing breh. this chick is playing stupid games.


also fukk what she's implying or not. at this point, fukk what she wanted or was trying to say. chicks play these silly cat mouse games because they think they can get away with it. she shouldn't even be comfortable with thinking she can play the chasing game even if she wants to fukk.
 
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