How Many Of Yall Dated a Chick that never could Apologize?

[BaggerofTea]

Mine only apologizes on some passive aggressive shyt. Like “I’m sorry that I expected more of you” type bullshyt. She can never flat out say she was in the wrong.

I would have cussed her out and ended the relationship right then and there

 

[Solomon Caine]

Women pretend to have terrible memories, But if you let me know ur not a clown n u not buying that bullshyt, they either pull up and learn their place.. or flee.. I got no time to play silly games with females

 

[Smokin Rider]

I checked my ex for some shyt she said one time and she apologized but then she wanted me to apologize for calling her out for it and I said no and she said she takes back her apology

 

[BaggerofTea]

bottom line she's a selfish broad...

Well - I'm officially single lol (update on 1st post)

The many L's I took during last 3 years of my 13 year marriage. feast your eyes on these L's


but regardless, she never ever apoligized for anything, not even after her affair when i was deployed.

Life is good now, and been on many dates and did things I have never been before when I was married.

I'm dating a woman now and the other day she she pissed me off and I told her why I was upset... did you know she actually apologized?! I was floored and coudln't believe it.

Yo I just read your story.

You are stronger man than me because I would have gone to jail on life sentence had i been in your shoes

 

[Solano707]

Yo I just read your story.

You are stronger man than me because I would have gone to jail on life sentence had i been in your shoes

nah breh, i was straight sucka to be honest and was scarred of divorce and losing my family... it doesn't sting as much now, now that i look back and reflect.

The whole divorce deal has fukked me up though, I'm insecure about serious relationships because of the feeling of getting hurt again, badly. My whole marriage to my ex wife was a lie; imagine that?

 

[BaggerofTea]

nah breh, i was straight sucka to be honest and was scarred of divorce and losing my family... it doesn't sting as much now, now that i look back and reflect.

The whole divorce deal has fukked me up though, I'm insecure about serious relationships because of the feeling of getting hurt again, badly. My whole marriage to my ex wife was a lie; imagine that?

I have never been in a serious relationship like that so I can't fathom how it feels to be a man being done upin a situation like that.

You have ptsd basically. That shyt is crazy.

You survived though and you have this hellion of a human being off of your back.

You have full custody yet?

 

[Solano707]

I have never been in a serious relationship like that so I can't fathom how it feels to be a man being done upin a situation like that.

You have ptsd basically. That shyt is crazy.

You survived though and you have this hellion of a human being off of your back.

You have full custody yet?

By God's grace, yes I hve full custody

 

[Serious]

True but it comes down to knowing how to communicate with women.
Most men don't know how to do that. Not that the fault is ours, but if we want to have successful relationships we need to learn how to decode them.
Plus it can be fukking frustrating because it's like communicating with a wall and we sometimes lose our cool and start yelling, which doesn't help.

In order for them to understand they've fukked up you have to make it about emotions, not logic. So you can't just say, "You fukked up by crashing my car." you have to say "It makes me sad that you crashed my car."
I know how stupid that sounds but it's true. They're very childlike in that way.

ahhahaaha make it about emotions not logic

 

[BaggerofTea]

By God's grace, yes I hve full custody

God is good


Probably the best result of this fiasco you had to go through.

Do you have pay alimony?

 

[AmenhotepIV]

Mine only apologizes on some passive aggressive shyt. Like “I’m sorry that I expected more of you” type bullshyt. She can never flat out say she was in the wrong.

Bruv

I am using this one

 

[Solano707]

God is good


Probably the best result of this fiasco you had to go through.

Do you have pay alimony?

Nope, but she has claim of about $800 of my retirement pension though that she gets automatically as soon as i retire from the military. Small price to pay though considering the grand scheme of things

 

[BornStar]

Yeah...

But chicks that never could apologize always forget shyt...

Like I totally could've been cussing the girl out an hour ago and she could would hit me like..."Hey wanna see a movie..."

And that always would creep me out...but then I learned that some people that can't or won't apologize...don't hold on to shyt...

It's almost like they need arguement to survive. Once they are finished nagging everything is all good. Had one that would literally say "love you baby" after the argument like she just didn't finish calling me a no good nikka that ain't worth shyt.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Nope, but she has claim of about $800 of my retirement pension though that she gets automatically as soon as i retire from the military. Small price to pay though considering the grand scheme of things

you dodged a bullet Goddamn.


No child support, 800 dollars is a drop in the bucket.

You are an inspiration. I am afraid of marriage but if,i do get married, i need things air tight like this

 

[bigmanharris]

Bruh!!! It was always...."well you do....", fukk what I do.....apologize you unaccountable cretin

 

[BaldingSoHard]

We don't need to do shyt. Why can't women just stop being stupid. We are not mind readers.

They are what they are, breh.

We're the leaders because we're better than them, but that means we also have to put in the work to try to lead them through their faults.