How many of you guys have given up on marriage?

[Mook]

You can be the most virtuous person with the highest character, the best husband, the loving father, a provider and well none of that means nothing.

Your status, your career, your good looks, your love all of that means nothing.

You better hope and pray hope and pray you chose a good woman.

There is at least a 45% chance that whenever a man gets married to an American woman, the woman will want to divorce him at some point. You have better chances at surviving Russian roulette!

Marriage is mostly a female ideal. Why should a man get married if he is of sound mind?

red pill got a dude opening his eyes

 

[Mowgli]

not only may you lose your house if you have one, but you can go from seeing your kids every day to once a week, from seeing the women you love hop in a relationship with someone new, a man who sees your kids more than you , you can go from being of sound mind to being depressed on meds to contemplating suicide, to losing your job due to the stress.

Avoidable if you know how to choose a wife.

But what do yall look for when you talk about wifeys.

Good p*ssy and head.

And you laid up with cacs and sluts with BODIES.
Squeezing a damn Rock over your mouth wondering why your thirst isn't quenched

Doomed

 

[Turk]

There's obviously something very wrong.

Infidelity
vices
squandered fortune
obesity


It's all it cam be

It's not infidelity....I know that much.

My parents are pretty traditional Africans and frown at the thought of getting divorced......even though they're stuck in, what appears to me, a loveless marriage.

 

[King Poetic]

Not even on my mind.. marriage not for me

 

[Mowgli]

It's not infidelity....I know that much.

My parents are pretty traditional Africans and frown at the thought of getting divorced......even though they're stuck in, what appears to me, a loveless marriage.

I guess they've done a good job at shielding you from their problems.

You have no clue where the disconnect occurred

 

[StickStickly]

not only may you lose your house if you have one, but you can go from seeing your kids every day to once a week, from seeing the women you love hop in a relationship with someone new, a man who sees your kids more than you , you can go from being of sound mind to being depressed on meds to contemplating suicide, to losing your job due to the stress.

You're going to live 45-50 more years (if you're lucky) and at marriage? That's a long time to write it off. You'll feel different once you meet someone you can truly trust

 

[A1aaa]

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[MikelArteta]

Avoidable if you know how to choose a wife.

But what do yall look for when you talk about wifeys.

Good p*ssy and head.

And you laid up with cacs and sluts with BODIES.
Squeezing a damn Rock over your mouth wondering why your thirst isn't quenched

Doomed

, so a man who has been married for 20 years and his wife steps out, or all these grey divorces ala women in their 50s adn 60s filing for that last freedom is the mans fault?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Lol at marriage

I know enough depressed married nikkas

 

[MikelArteta]

You're going to live 45-50 more years (if you're lucky) and at marriage? That's a long time to write it off. You'll feel different once you meet someone you can truly trust

ive reached 30 years without being married, I can do another 30 or 40 or 50

Doesn't mean I won't date or be in long term relationships, just that I like my cuts clean. As in if a chick is cheating on me no biggie, cut the cord dont have to see her again. If I no longer like/love her no biggie, don't have to see her again, work out arrangements pay her any money and all that. IF she falls out of love with me no biggie.

lol trust :kony:

 

[MikelArteta]

what are the benefits of being married from a man's perspective? serious question.



i've been grinding all my life to reach where i'm currently at financially/education-wise, so i'm understandably paranoid about a woman potentially stripping all that away from me. i don't want to end up in my ex-wife's basement like shane mosley

if you have kids they benefit from being in a two parent household, and you can see em every day
minus that....

 

[Mook]

Lol at marriage

I know enough depressed married nikkas

Dudes married cant even get blow jobs b

 

[no.]

red pill got a dude opening his eyes

be a red piller, brehs

spend the rest of your life worrying about being alpha like an insucure teenager, brehs

 

[MikelArteta]

my eyes were opened again the other day when my brother in law at church preaching said he contemplated divorce before on numerous occasions, and he and my sister are two of the most humble, in love people I have ever known.


as i said before I could do marriage easily, I could be monogamous/faithful a loving husband, a provider, a great dad, never break my vows, never get to comfortable, not be a pushover balless simp, i would stay if she got sick, id be faithful if it becomes sexless, id still call her beautiful if she got fat. But you aint guaranteed nothing.

I've seen to many things, heard to many things, done to many research, hell I worked in a family law courthouse and every day I saw families being broken.

The risk doesnt outweight hte reward in my ind

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

Dudes married cant even get blow jobs b

I know one dude who avoids going hone after work .

Again you lose all freedom when your married

No thanks