Coli Brehs scared of a domestic violence case now?
Many many years ago right before I got the job that jump started my career I had to leave the woman I was with, because if I didn’t I’d have caught a DV case. I’d have had a fresh arrest on my record and have outstanding charges against me, and I knew fighting that case, or any case, would've took months and cost me that job, and any other job I’d have applied to at the time, until the case got settled.
That was yeeaaars ago and still bugs me today for having to walk away from that like that because of how mad I was, but I know leaving was better than catching a case and derailing my life.
And it could have been even worse because who’s to say things wouldn’t have gotten out of hand and it would have ended as just a DV case? A slip and fall during a regular DV and someone hits their head the wrong way, turns that into a whole different case. Or things get too heated and someone grabs a knife and knicks an artery. Like that white football player who broke his bedwench arm and her nose and collarbone. You get tempers flared and start fighting, things can get really bad. Just leave them, they don’t get any better, there’s a reason they’re single at the age they are.