Military stay at home mom
How much should the man pay?
- Thread starter 1thouwow
- Start date
The Prince of All Saiyans
Formerly Jisoo Stan & @Twitter
so she couldn't figure out half on her own? how many others live there that this was a question
GoldCoastSaint
Yall nikkas hate everything but Tariq Nasheed
I can't think of any part of my relationship that is 50/50.
Military stay at home mom
My husband is retired military. When he was in I worked, so put your
away.
Freedman
Choppers For Karate Nggas
Military stay at home mom
Seen this movie before son gonna be paying the mortgage for other nikkas to be laying on his sofa watching his TV after smashing his ol lady
That last part is what gets me. Like us dudes weren't cooking and cleaning before we met them? And why does the dude pay all the rent? He's gotta pay all that and still find a way to put dough away into savings, date night, etc. Let's be real. These chick's say this is "teamwork" but who's really making out in this scenario?I never understand the responses from women in these types of threads, I can only guess it's because none of the women here have ever actually lived with a man.
You split everything evenly, period. All this "I'll pay significantly less cause I hold down the house by cooking and cleaning" is for the birds, this is 2017 both partners can cook and clean.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Multiple multiple by zero
not one?
Nothing
If she isn't wifey and i don't live there why should i care
If she isn't wifey and i don't live there why should i care
Larry Lambo
Superstar
That's fair. As a husband I don't mind footing the buik of the expenses or all if my wife doesn't work.
But the question doesn't say the couple is married or is even headed down that road. I can't see myself covering all the bills for a "girlfriend"
At the same time, I'm not the type to live with a chick before marriage anyways, but if for some strange reason it happened, she'd be paying her half.
PartyHeart
All Star
Its ironic because to me threads like this reveal that men want their cake and eat it too.
If you are the same posters who constantly complain about feminism and beat your chest about needing a woman to submit, the only person being hypocritical here is you if you are wanting to split the bills 50/50. Please get it out of your head that just because you have a penis you are the head/leader/worthy of submission. It sounds good for your ego, but 99% of women whether they say it or not (or at least the ones you'd want who know their worth) aren't going to go for it. You have to actually look at it from the woman's perspective. Exactly what is she getting out of submitting to you and letting you lead if she's going to continue to have the same and more responsibilities as before she met you?
You want to be the boss, you pay the cost. Its not my ideal situation, but there's nothing wrong with it and at least its fair. But if you are fine with equality and don't hate feminism/women's empowerment, 50/50 makes sense.
If you are the same posters who constantly complain about feminism and beat your chest about needing a woman to submit, the only person being hypocritical here is you if you are wanting to split the bills 50/50. Please get it out of your head that just because you have a penis you are the head/leader/worthy of submission. It sounds good for your ego, but 99% of women whether they say it or not (or at least the ones you'd want who know their worth) aren't going to go for it. You have to actually look at it from the woman's perspective. Exactly what is she getting out of submitting to you and letting you lead if she's going to continue to have the same and more responsibilities as before she met you?
You want to be the boss, you pay the cost. Its not my ideal situation, but there's nothing wrong with it and at least its fair. But if you are fine with equality and don't hate feminism/women's empowerment, 50/50 makes sense.
GoldCoastSaint
Yall nikkas hate everything but Tariq Nasheed
Not one. Strengths and weaknesses-balance.
Forget a husband, it sounds like you want a sugar daddy. I hope your looks are real good but even beauty fades so you'll be tossed to the side for a younger woman when you reach your mid 30s if not 40.