How much space yall need from ya GF?

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she may not be the one breh.
It's early in the game and it's already
feeling heavy for you.....you will resent her in no time.
let her know how you feel and if
it's a problem break it off.
nikkas will let alot of bullshyt
ride to keep steady p*ssy around,
fukk around and have a kid and
wake up with a monster that was
showing her fangs the entire time.

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I have a feeling you played more of a role in this than you’re letting on. You broke the rules with her, didn’t you?

If you tell a woman you’re busy from 9 to 4, and then start texting her during that 9 to 4 when things are new and buzzing, you don’t get to treat that situation like a light switch at your leisure.

Don’t push your own boundaries and you won’t have these problems. And why in the world would you tell her you’re working from home? :what:



The more free time you let a woman know you have the more shyte she’ll find to fill it up with.
:francis:

Also, suck it up and FaceTime that woman and stop thinking going days without talking to a civilian will ever be normal to them. Side note: She’s on you like this cause you doing something right
 

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For me, I get a fair amount of space. Mr & my lady both work and live separately. We see each other once a week.

It works for us because it gives us time to take care of business and allows us to miss each other. However, we do talk on the phone daily. We don't use any app like facetime or any other comparable app.

OP..

Only thing I can tay to you is that what you shared confirms that you aren't ready to take it to the next level yet.

Just continue to discuss how important it is for you to have your space. If y'all can't come to some sort of understanding, then the both of you may need to reevaluate your relationship and decide if the relationship can move forward or not...
 

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I wanted a second opinion from those in relationships, me and my girl been together for about half a year and we dont live together yet. We both work from home and she wants to interact for what seems like all day.

When i wasnt remote i couldnt have my phone from 7:30-4:30:manny:but sometimes it seems like she doesnt feel where im coming from with that.

Sometimes she'll travel for work, maybe 4 days out of the week, and will want to be on facetime at the end of the night. A nikka needs his sleep:damn:i dont necessarily mind being on the phone but im not a huge fan of facetime...but she prefers it so we kinda bump heads on that. I used to travel while in the military and honestly 4 days isnt a long time to me, ive done longer, but she thinks it is:manny:

The main thing is i feel like there's no opportunity to miss each other, it seems like we're interacting most of the day, every day






Breh, i wonder if it's cuz women wanna communicate so much because they're affraid you might be creepin'?



My Covid Ex (i know, i know... y'all tired of hearing aboot her but I still love her; it's an unrequited situation :sadShaq: always wanted to face time. She even set up a zoom meeting for us to eat and interact.


I despised it then because we would go into the the wee hours of the morning (and my ass had to work in the a.m. breh. She was studying for her LSAT's or whatever law people do).


She never seemed to be tired either. It's that young girl/mid 20's energy (they're so youthful and vibrant, i miss making thug love to her as well :ohlawd: Ugh at the thot of somebody blowing her back out religiously with they stiffy, ugh - makes me wanna grab the blicky, ugh).



Man, i remember when we went to Traders Joe and got a bunch of ingredients, got some wine and she made me home made shar cooterie (sp?) board. Then we went to her room and had secksuals. Man, it was fukkin' great. I remember still being hungry after dinner so i went down on her (she kept telling me to pick one or the other, not both, so I just ate her ass instead) :ohlawd:


I'm talking to the plant at work, look.









Wait, what are we discussing again?






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