How much yall dropping on christmas gifts?

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Only people who should receive material gifts for Christmas are kids and the older elders of the family, and moreseo as a lifetime achievement award. Those who've entered the world 18-20 years ago, and those who're retired and may not have much in disposable income due to no longer working.

Think about it, what's the rationale between 2 adults who both have jobs, make at least decent money, buying gifts for each other that they may want, when each can just take their money and buy what they will want?

If you have to spend money, here's an even better idea that IMO should be encouraged, and this would work perfectly given Christmas' place on the calendar: You and your trusted loved one or ones start saving Christmas money in January. Twelve months later on Christmas day everyone puts their money together and y'all open up an investment portfolio shortly thereafter. And you do this year after year and keep adding to the pot. This way all of that money that would go to corporations stay in the family and is allowed to grow. If you start doing this in your 20s or 30s, there'll be a nice little nest egg when everyone begins to retire. Keep a yearly ledger of everyone's contributions so everyone knows what they're entitled to due to their percentage of contribution to the portfolio, or everyone can just agree to putting in the same amount to keeps things even and simple. And no one touches it until a specified payout date years down the road.

Now instead of losing money for Christmas, you've made money for Christmas :blessed:

And of course I understand some people have family members and friends that they can't trust for shıt. Those people shouldn't even be on your Christmas list to begin with, much less be part of a plan like this. Also, if you pitch this idea to your significant other and they say they'd prefer material presents, you've just saved yourself from someone who isn't serious about building long term with you :ufdup:
 

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45 on 3 great niece and nephews, found something on Amazon.


50 on niece and nephew, grown nephew gets nothing.
 

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I have a lot of nieces and nephews, and they wanted Tablets, laptops, and game consoles.

That's what I get for trying to be the fun aunty. :francis:


I'm giving my siblings and granny cash, I'm bad at shopping for other people and I don't want to end up getting them some bullshyt they didn't want/like. I don't know how much that's going to end up being.
 

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For your wife/girl? For immediate family? For distant fam or friends?

For my wife I spend a few hundred, everyone else its marshalls shyt around 20 dollars and we out
$430 so far. That is only the utility gifts though (things they need). I am going back out to get the fun and flashy stuff later today. I don't plan on spending more than $800 - $1000 over all, since we agreed that we would only get 3 presents each this year.
 

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200 on the girl

Sent parents on a cruise but split this with my bros/sis
 

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It was a joke!
$50 each for my parents and grandparents, so $200

Rest of my family won't notice a gift missing from me, if they do, tough :umad:
 
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I don’t even do gifts like that but I cashed out this year. About $800 for the family and the woman I’m seeing. Crazy thing is the most expensive gift I bought was for myself, this bass guitar showed up in my Amazon suggested and I had to get it :dead:
 
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