How often do yall check up on ex's?

Sassy

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I don't. The last time i heard anything about my ex. Was that he had a baby with his girl. (His mom and i talk sometimes since his mom and my mom are cool with each other)
 

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Passive checking for the most, whatever they end up posting on IG or Facebook.

There are a few I'm actually good friends with. It's weird how well you can get along w/ someone once emotions are removed from the equation.
 

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why u not with her bro? age?

She is 3 years older than me and i was around 25 when we first got together. Friends convinced me i was selling myself short looking to wife a 28 year old so i started dabbing into the online scene a little bit. One of her friends saw me on there and it was a wrap. Man i was so sick, for a long time. I aint gonna lie, i still love that woman and im married as hell.
 

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Not much really to be honest...


I'm only friends with her on IG so if she post something I see it (she doesn't post often but they usually them lil memes about BS and relationships...I feel she taking a dig at me but :yeshrug: :win:) We not friends on FB so I really don't check on it like that....sometimes one of our mutual friends may ask "is that about you?" Then I let em know I can't see it and don't care to....so if it is :manny:
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I've moved on
 

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Strangely enough, my ex from high-school (20 years ago) just hit me up last weekend. Asked me if I wanted to go hiking when she flies back into town. I'm not sure if it was an invitation to smash or not but it was definitely weird cause we literally haven't talked since that day I broke up with her before going off to college.

Luckily, I don't live in that state anymore. She's married anyway.
Just a warning tho. It's possible that she wants to smash but isnt sure yet. She probably just wants to see you and depending on how she feels that day and how the conversation goes she'll make up her mind,

Been in similar situations before. I have this cuban chick i used to kick it with back in MIami. She was my boss at first. Then after that i became her boss. Cool little fatty. Anyway, she's married now but we still fukk sometimes. Usually if she knows im in town she'll try to schedule a time for us to go have a drink. Once we get there we'll just find a cheap motel nearby and smash.
 

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He's doing okay.
Muthafukka won't let me forget him :pachaha:

That other one is probably on top of a thot from O'Charley's right now covered in flour. :rudy:


























fukk him! :mjcry:
 

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She is 3 years older than me and i was around 25 when we first got together. Friends convinced me i was selling myself short looking to wife a 28 year old so i started dabbing into the online scene a little bit. One of her friends saw me on there and it was a wrap. Man i was so sick, for a long time. I aint gonna lie, i still love that woman and im married as hell.
25 and 28 aint a big gap nikka wtf lol
You lowkey fukked up
 

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Facebook. Via phone at least once a year.

It never hurts to send a "happy Birthday" text every now and again. Trust me with women, little things like this go a long way.
My philosophy: NEVER-BURN-BRIDGES :smugbiden:

I am on good/speaking terms with pretty much every woman ive ever dated or fukked. I can only think of two who dont speak to me. One stole my money (over $2300) and disappeared . The other said she didnt wanna be my booty call and since i didnt wanna "date" her she asked that i dont contact anymore because she feels while there is no animosity between us, being friends is a slippery slope for us to keep fukking and shes trying to "do better".

Again, if you stay on a woman's good side she'll likely never shut the door on you completely.

some bridges need to be burned homie.
 
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