UncleTomFord15
Veteran
About 60% of the time I go out im alone. Its interesting, I talk and meet new ppl along the way everyday. The other 40% im with a friend(s) just doing random shyt.
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I ain't bout that life now.Frequently.....You can't depend on others for a sense of self, or the ability to have fun, I understand everyones personality is different, but I think it's so limiting to have that mindset where you won't go out alone...I go to movies, restaurants, plays, travel, beach, whatever....Obviously, some things are more fun in company... I want to find a dope girl (who loves the music and the era) to go to the Bad Boy reunion concert in October, that will be no problem.
I'll ask, come to Miami, come to LA, whatever, if it doesn't work, I go ahead with my plans. I also don't really want company for it's own sake either, I want someone to compliment and enjoy the experience.....I'm not taking a girl who doesn't really listen to the Weeknd, to see him in concert.....or see a movie they don't care about.
As far as male friends, my friendships aren't contingent on us doing everything together. I'll hit them here and there, but their limitations aren't mine, and mine aren't theirs, it doesn't change the friendship. I think it's wierd as fukk to NOT want to go see a movie alone, or try a new place to eat. You would rather sit home, like fukk it.....it's defeatist outlook to me.