How often do you talk to your parents?

Sithlord Piff

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I dont talk to them verbally that often. maybe once a month...but they have fb pages and I chop it up with them all the time.
 

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I'd probably talk to my pops more but that nikka don't know how to end a conversation. Like
me: 'aight pops I'm pulling up, gotta hit you later'
Pops: 'ok, hey whats up your Vikings? Kicker choked'
me: 'pops I just got rear ended gotta go'
Pops: 'I tell you bout that time I almost pulled off with your car seat on the roof?'
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My pops and I bond over sports just about every week. The NFL is a good chunk of our relationship which I actually like. My dads not really great with personal stuff so we rely on sports to fill that void. Talk to my mom every other day or so. Since I've had a GF she thinks she's been replaced. Yall know how moms are.
 

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Don't really trust my parents judgement and don't agree with how they live their lives so I keep my distance.

But I check in with father once every two weeks.

Don't ask mom for shyt, rarely talk to her, I had resentments toward her and just don't like her. We've both abused each other emotionally, and psychologically for years. But I care for her, and we let each other do our own thing. Love from a distance.
 

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I talk to my my mom a 1 to 3 times a week and my dad once or twice every week and a half . I need to talk to my dad more :(
 

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I just talked to my dad for the first time in 6 years yesterday. My phone rang and I saw some weird number, thing is I just moved to Cali about 2 months ago so I'm still job-hunting. I figured the number might have been a job I applied to so I picked up the phone.
Me: Hello?
Dad: Hey Jay, this is your dad.
Me: .....
Dad: I heard you, your sister and mother moved out to California, how do you like it out there?
Me: Why are you calling me?
Dad: I miss you and your sister, I know I haven't been there for y'all but just know I'm proud of you and I wish you the best.
Me: OK.
Dad: I know you're angry but please I want you to try to forgive me.
Me: Trust me I'm not angry or sad, I just honestly don't really care anymore.
Dad: What is that supposed to mean?
Me: Figure it out for yourself.

I hung up after that. I don't know if I handled the situation correctly and I honestly don't care. My dad left us when I was 4 and my little sister had just been born. Dude left my mom when she had absolutely nothing and was still very weak from giving birth. I figure that reality hit him that he had two kids and a fiancee to take care of and he just bailed. Usually, dude would call me and my sis out of the blue and at least say hi. But he even stopped doing that, last time I remember dude calling us was like back in 2010. shyt has been so hard for us for years, my mom just got lucky to get a job offer in Cali that paid her a lot of money and that's what led to us moving out here. Otherwise we still would have been in the hood in NY. I will never understand how a man can leave two kids to grow up on their own and somehow still say he loves them. I will never ever pull some shyt like that with my kids when the time comes. I had so much hurt and pain towards my dad for such a long time but it's gone now. Now I honestly don't give a fukk about him, which is probably the worst case scenario for a parent in regards to their children. I love my mom, such a hardworking, positive woman. I got my Bachelor's degree last spring and my mom cried at my graduation. I felt like crying too cuz shyt been so hard for us. shyt is real brehs, I will always remember everything she has done as a single mother to get us to this point. I can't wait to have a career, I have special things planned for my moms.

Yo my fault for this long post brehs, I just needed to vent. shyt is real out here.

That was some real Shyt man. I hope the best for you.
 
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