I was able to get my daps at the beginningThis thread got derailed something serious.
As a guy though if you want it , it's easy for you to have.
Guys control relationships and marriage. They decide when they will commit to women and when they will marry them. Women don't control that.
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Somewhat, but yall have the power to expedite the shyt or bounce as well here, not like yall HAVE to just sit and wait.They decide when they will commit to women and when they will marry them. Women don't control that.
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Somewhat, but yall have the power to expedite the shyt or bounce as well here, not like yall HAVE to just sit and wait.
Leaving is the one who's in control tho, that takes a lot of strength to do thatNo we don't have the power to expedite but we do have the power to leave. The problem is when you've already built rapport with the one guy, just leaving and being on the next is hard, especially if you really like the person. You really just kind of solidified my point. Men have all the control in regards to commitment and moving forward.
That's not control if you want to be in a relationship with that person. Moving on means you've essentially failed and have to start all over. I agree it's difficult though. I don't feel there is a good way to screen anyone. Even if you tell a guy you want to be in a relationship, doesn't mean he has to agree.Leaving is the one who's in control tho, that takes a lot of strength to do that
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This why you have to properly inspect viable mates tho, so you don't have to go through these problems
Don't gotta fight with someone who WANTS to get married
Coli is a fantastic way to screen peopleI don't feel there is a good way to screen anyone.
That sound like somebody just wanting to fukk though if he using trickery like that.Even if you tell a guy you want to be in a relationship, doesn't mean he has to agree.it's really all depends on chance and timing.
Well everyone's experience is different. I know for me it's never been in my control to be in a committed relationship, yet alone marriage (killed that dream a while ago). I don't see it as a big deal anymore. I've googled and there are tons of stories about people, both male and female in the same boat so I don't feel alone. Truth is, it's just not going to happen for some people but I still feel it's easier for men.Coli is a fantastic way to screen people
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That sound like somebody just wanting to fukk though if he using trickery like that.
Marriage itself is a big ass debate between folks, people just HAVE to get legally married these days. Me personally, getting married is cool, but having a locked down person and setting a foundation with is cool too. It works even if its not written in stone.Well everyone's experience is different. I know for me it's never been in my control to be in a committed relationship, yet alone marriage (killed that dream a while ago). I don't see it as a big deal anymore. I've googled and there are tons of stories about people, both male and female in the same boat so I don't feel alone. Truth is, it's just not going to happen for some people but I still feel it's easier for men.