You might not be putting the effort in.
You been a member for 4 years and haven't bothered to upload an avi for example.
When you come across like a person with no conviction IRL people glaze over whatever it is you are saying.
And the result is no one remembers you or wants to be around you.
They may not dislike you. They may tolerate you when you are there by chance. But if you want to get to the level where ppl are like "Hey, you know who we should call... TM!" you need to bring something to the table. Even your name TM101 sounds like a bot. Like a name google defaults to you cause 'Tim' was taken.
You gotta get in there pleighboy.
I'm not sensing no kind of swag whatsoever.
Listen to this and get pumped up.
This gotta be playing in your head when you out there talking to fools.