How Shall I Tell Him The Truth?

[Beegio]

I'm not going to answer your question, silly boy.

Show some respect!

Why not?

Your refusal to at least say no tells me you want to give it to him.

The whole reason you want to throw salt on your girl in the first place.

 

[Desirous]

It's great that you care about people though...I hate to see people getting played too, but I agree that it wouldn't be your place to say anything.

 

[Action Jackson]

Just let it go. Dude's a sucker. Nothing you can say to him will change that.

 

[Rawtid]

Don't save him, he doesn't want to be saved.

 

[SuikodenII]

She probably would

Neh Mind....sounds like she'll power bomb you through a table

She's 22 (nearly 23) and he's 33 from what I remember.

He's too old to be that dumb (though, yes, you can still be ignorant at that age)

Yeah, I'd leave it alone. You need to also leave her alone. Association brings about assimilation......


Let me give you some advice, the best advice you're gonna get about things of this nature are gonna come from old folks, not on thecoli, so be prepared for a lot of and in this section. Why not ask your parents what they would do?

 

[Kemyran]

I hate seeing men (or women) getting played. Regardless of whether we're cool or not, I always try to let the other person know on the down low that they're being played. The only problem is that: in this particular case I've only seen the man once and I can't think of a slick way of telling him that he's getting played without putting myself out there. I'm actually pretty good friends with the girl (we go way back) and although I question her moral compass, I don't want to put a strain on our friendship.

She's basically dating a man who has bought her a new car, Mac, phone, and is renting a small apartment for her in his name, but planning to transfer it to hers. He desperately wants to marry her, but she's not attracted to him in the slightest. He knows that he's not her type but he tries to win her over by paying for everything. I've already told her that what she's doing is evil; my message goes in one ear and out the other. The man is so genuine and honest with her, pouring his heart and soul, and she's cackling behind his back with all her girlfriends telling us she finds him ugly and worries about getting pregnant with his child. They recently came back from an expensive holiday. He's always booking stuff for her. It's such a shame because he could be with another girl who truly loves him, instead of my heartless friend who is a reckless player. I've told her to leave him alone but she won't listen.

How can I warn him on the down low? He's so head over heels in love with her that I doubt he'll listen to what I say if I'm straightforward about it. I have messages where she's dogging him out, but if I send those it'll come straight back to me and I don't want the drama. Any ideas?

You don't have to say anything. Read your own words. He knows what he's doing but is choosing to be willfully stupid and foolhardy by squiring this woman around the world KNOWING she's not feeling him like that. Any missteps he makes are his and his alone. Leave the situation alone, it'll be resolved in time.

 

[Cat piss martini]

I'm living a comfortable lifestyle and so are all my other friends. It just doesn't sit right with me knowing someone is being taken for a fool. I know it's not my business, but damn.. it's a cold world out here. I just wanted to offer him a blanket.

That's what I said......mind yo gat damn business.

 

[Turbulent]

on some real shyt i actually see what Beegio is saying. unless you want to give the dude some puss, i think you should mind your own.

dude is a 33 year old man, PLUS he knows the deal already. Dude likes to trick. You telling him is not gonna stop him from tricking. and even if he stops, he will trick on someone else. You said "he deserves real love". What makes you think that? you barely know dude and from his actions, he seems like he's trying to trick your "friend" into loving her. Sure the bytch is thrife and she will get hers eventually. When she will be bored with him she will move on to other fishes until she meets a shark who will eat her alive and spit her out. but that's none of your business though. If you dislike her actions so much, just stop talking to her completely. But instead you want to send an anonymous letter to dude "because he's getting played and you hate to see that". at the same time you're scared of her finding out cause she could fukk you up and you don't want those problems. A true coward...

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

Neh Mind....sounds like she'll power bomb you through a table



He's too old to be that dumb (though, yes, you can still be ignorant at that age)

Yeah, I'd leave it alone. You need to also leave her alone. Association brings about assimilation......


Let me give you some advice, the best advice you're gonna get about things of this nature are gonna come from old folks, not on thecoli, so be prepared for a lot of and in this section. Why not ask your parents what they would do?

Thanks for the advice, bro.

I appreciate it!

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

on some real shyt i actually see what Beegio is saying. unless you want to give the dude some puss, i think you should mind your own.

dude is a 33 year old man, PLUS he knows the deal already. Dude likes to trick. You telling him is not gonna stop him from tricking. and even if he stops, he will trick on someone else. You said "he deserves real love". What makes you think that? you barely know dude and from his actions, he seems like he's trying to trick your "friend" into loving her. Sure the bytch is thrife and she will get hers eventually. When she will be bored with him she will move on to other fishes until she meets a shark who will eat her alive and spit her out. but that's none of your business though. If you dislike her actions so much, just stop talking to her completely. But instead you want to send an anonymous letter to dude "because he's getting played and you hate to see that". at the same time you're scared of her finding out cause she could fukk you up and you don't want those problems. A true coward...

I don't like tension or starting drama, especially when our families are good friends. I think the best option for me is to just stop speaking to her. It honestly makes my blood boil when I know someone is getting f***ed over! The last boyfriend she did this to felt suicidal and he didn't spend nearly half as much as this man. I just don't want the man she is dating now to become emotionally scarred or feel depressed because of her. Something must've happened to her because she is truly heartless when it comes to men. Maybe I should spend my time and energy focusing on finding out why she is the way she is? I don't know. Thanks for all the responses though. It's helped me get closer to what I think I'm going to do.

Take care everyone =)

 

[Rocket Scientist]

This wont end good....

 

[Rocket Scientist]

OP might as well get with the dude.You care about him then she does.You may say you dont like him but your worried about his feelings....thats a sign right there.

 

[TheFemalePerspective]

OP might as well get with the dude.You care about him then she does.You may say you dont like him but your worried about his feelings....thats a sign right there.

lol I have someone and I'm not in the slightest bit interested in him romantically. Is the world that cold that we assume if someone wants to help another human being, the only logical reason must be that they fancy them?

 

[Diondon]

And when you tell nikkas they need some game they be like
fukk that sucka ass simp
When he finally get that ether tho

 

[DeuceZ]

stop snitching on Drake