How soon do you bring up sexual texts with someone new?

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I love when men jump the gun hella early by bringing up sex


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I love when men jump the gun hella early by bringing up sex


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For me...its alot of boring women(in bed)...im not askn for nothn crazy. Theres women that dont even suck dikk(instantly i block em) lol. Also i doesnt mean i just wana hit n quit. Convos get very dry...especially women from dating apps
 

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Don’t.

Just invite her over for drinks.

sexting new bytches is for nikkas that need confirmation before they spend any money. More than likely a room or dinner ... for my brehs that doesn’t stay alone.
 

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Let a nikka fukk something :youngsabo:

But naw for real, ain’t no magic answer, you just gotta have awareness and play ever situation different. Also, you energy gotta be that of a nikka trying to fukk from jump, fukk all that timid shyt. But fukk all that sexting shyt anyway. I’m just trying to see if you falling through. Text them other nikkas all that dumb shyt and send that nikka pics. I don’t like texting these hoes in general. My bytches be hating my guts though. I’m low effort, which is the only way I may add.

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@Max. Here's a convo I've been having with some Indian chick from bumble this afternoon. She started off pretty dry. But we started talking about fitness and I started to add obvious innuendo and now I know she's on the same wavelength.

Now I'm not going to get anymore explicit with her. I know what she's open for. I've setup a drink with her for tomorrow evening.

Now if I told her straight up let's fukk. She'd no doubt unmatch.

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For me...its alot of boring women(in bed)...im not askn for nothn crazy. Theres women that dont even suck dikk(instantly i block em) lol. Also i doesnt mean i just wana hit n quit. Convos get very dry...especially women from dating apps
Conversation gets as dry as you let them :manny:. Some people can’t carry convos, and it ain’t just women. I also don’t see the point of a lot of chatting it up on apps. Exchange messages for a couple days, FaceTime or call, if the vibe is right, meet and carry on regular dating protocol (calls, texts, dates) from there if y’all feeling each other

also, if you don’t wanna hit and quit, what’s the point of being so thirsty about the sexual convos? They come when they come. If you’re just on there looking for sex, then ok, be up front, if you’re trying to date, I don’t see the point of forcing sexual convos. They usually happen organically if there’s chemistry
 

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I brought up sex immediately in one year of my life and that was the only year I was successful with it. I was 28 in shape and I was in a place where there were no black men, during a time when black men were being fetishized at the highest degree due to Michael b Jordan. Im deadass.
I learned something that year. If a black celebrity is eating we might all can eat.
But that was the only year it worked. never do that. it doesn’t work. Ever. I got lucky as fukk
 

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this even when she initiates the sexual text its better just to play it cool. even if u just want to smash u cant let them know that. save the sexual tension for in person
You actually can. This is where people are playing themselves. Even people looking for a serious relationship on apps are open to some no strings attached sex to hold them over as they date more compatible people/try to find a LTR. A lot of men are fukking up the game not being straight up about looking for a casual situation, you’d score a lot faster vs faking the funk with women looking for something substantial
 

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For me...its alot of boring women(in bed)...im not askn for nothn crazy. Theres women that dont even suck dikk(instantly i block em) lol. Also i doesnt mean i just wana hit n quit. Convos get very dry...especially women from dating apps



So you think throwing out sex questions etc will liven up a dry conversation? If the conversation is dry, cut it short and move on. Whenever the conversation is dry I never try to force it because it's generally a sign.


Does that really happen often ?

Not often but enough. Some men don't know the art of nuance. In my experience if he doesn't bring it up or does it in a finesse/subtle way, I'm more turned on.
 
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