How soon is too soon to propose?

[The Mad Titan]

Lets not talk about that right now

 

[Rekkapryde]

Before you've lived together

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[KravenMorehead™]

Hell if i know

subs

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

u was gone be the exception

 

[CACarot]

Women that set time limits on things are so stupid saying it's a waste if not by a certain amount of time we not married. Really any number you put on it is arbitrary because there is no set time limit on when things happen.

 

[Elle Driver]

u was gone be the exception

You a lieeeeeeeeeee Chaucer.

 

[Ashley Banks]

A year? You're willing to dedicate your LIFE to someone after a year? You can't know the ins and outs of a persons soul after a year. At least a 5 year minimum. At least.

lol @ staying with a dude for 5 years and then he decides he doesn't want to marry you. I feel like, if it hasn't happened after 2 years, it will never happen. I'll move on after 2.

 

[Amy Traphouse]

He can propose whenever...just know we going to the courts in 2 months to make it legal.

Don't be a forever fiance, never his wife.

 

[onelastdeath]

lol @ staying with a dude for 5 years and then he decides he doesn't want to marry you. I feel like, if it hasn't happened after 2 years, it will never happen. I'll move on after 2.

Because YALL don't wanna be wives, yall wanna be brides.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Because YALL don't wanna be wives, yall wanna be brides.

I want both actually but I would be cool with not having a wedding.

 

[onelastdeath]

I want both actually but I would be cool with not having a wedding.

So why does the wait matter?

 

[KinksandCoils]

a year and under is too soon. Some people don't even show their ass until after a yr.

 

[Ashley Banks]

So why does the wait matter?

not trying to get strung along by some dude that's just using me. To me, he's just waiting until he finds something better then he's just gonna leave you behind, so I'll just leave before it gets to that point.

 

[onelastdeath]

not trying to get strung along by some dude that's just using me. To me, he's just waiting until he finds something better then he's just gonna leave you behind, so I'll just leave before it gets to that point.

So there's no trust then? Nothing that says maybe he wants you to know all sides of him and for him to know all sides of you before you dedicate your lives to one another?

 

[Ashley Banks]

So there's no trust then? Nothing that says maybe he wants you to know all sides of him and for him to know all sides of you before you dedicate your lives to one another?

it takes 5+ years to do that?

but if a guy wants to wait 5 years, he can do that, it's his life. But I don't have to wait around for him, I can leave.