How soon is too soon to propose?

[onelastdeath]

I thought it was just a piece of paper?

now it's a contract. So you love me but not enough to sign a "contract" proving it. Got it.

It is just a piece of paper, a paper that won't make any man love more than he does. You don't get married for love, the love should be there already. Marriage is just a dedication of life. Not of love.

 

[Ashley Banks]

It is just a piece of paper, a paper that won't make any man love more than he does. You don't get married for love, the love should be there already. Marriage is just a dedication of life. Not of love.

Ok so if you already love me and marriage won't change anything, why wait 5 years to do it?

If a guy wants to do that then he's free to do it with someone else because I'm not waiting for it. If you really loved me and thought we would be together, you wouldn't have a problem with doing it. Wanting to wait 5+ years just shows that you're unsure and if you've been with me for 2-3 years and you're still unsure about whether or not you want to be with me, I think there's something wrong.

 

[onelastdeath]

Ok so if you already love me and marriage won't change anything, why wait 5 years to do it?

If a guy wants to do that then he's free to do it with someone else because I'm not waiting for it. If you really loved me and thought we would be together, you wouldn't have a problem with doing it. Wanting to wait 5+ years just shows that you're unsure and if you've been with me for 2-3 years and you're still unsure about whether or not you want to be with me, I think there's something wrong.

And what's wrong with being unsure, but working toward certainty? If he's with you after three years and there are no problems in the relationship, maybe he wants to make sure he's at a certain place so that he could be the best him for you. I know this sounds crazy, but you know.. there are TWO people involved In the marriage. Because you're sure about you, doesn't mean he's sure about himself. Not everytime a man doesn't want to get married, does it mean that there's an issue with the woman, or that he's unsure of you.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Thread is hilarious

Im back on my #GMB shyt though We in here

had to make an appearance eh?

 

[Ashley Banks]

And what's wrong with being unsure, but working toward certainty? If he's with you after three years and there are no problems in the relationship, maybe he wants to make sure he's at a certain place so that he could be the best him for you. I know this sounds crazy, but you know.. there are TWO people involved In the marriage. Because you're sure about you, doesn't mean he's sure about himself. Not everytime a man doesn't want to get married, does it mean that there's an issue with the woman, or that he's unsure of you.

I find that hard to believe.

Honestly if a guy is still unsure about his future with me after 2 years, I highly doubt he will care if i leave. He would probably be sad because he can't string me along anymore but he'll find someone else.

 

[onelastdeath]

I find that hard to believe.

Honestly if a guy is still unsure about his future with me after 2 years, I highly doubt he will care if i leave. He would probably be sad because he can't string me along anymore but he'll find someone else.

Sometimes women forget that there are two people In a relationship.

 

[Strapped]

I swear every 3 months skeets is in love with a new chick

 

[Ashley Banks]

Sometimes women forget that there are two people In a relationship.

I'm not forgetting anything, if he doesn't want to get married I'm not going to force him to just like he can't force me to stay with him. I have the right to leave a relationship if I feel like the person is just trying to string me along.

 

[Elle Driver]

Thread is hilarious

Im back on my #GMB shyt though We in here

Oh really? Why?

 

[Towlie]

In August it'll be 9 months

I learned it's hard to put a time constraint on that. When you're ready, you're ready

 

[onelastdeath]

I'm not forgetting anything, if he doesn't want to get married I'm not going to force him to just like he can't force me to stay with him. I have the right to leave a relationship if I feel like the person isn't on the same the path as me.

True. That is your right, but the grass ain't always greener, juicy,

 

[Ashley Banks]

True. That is your right, but the grass ain't always greener, juicy,

I'd rather be single than to spend 3 years of my life doing my best to make someone happy only for them to tell me they're unsure about me. anything is better than that.

 

[twan83]

you know when u know but

tell her too soon and get hit with this

&

 

[onelastdeath]

I'd rather be single than to spend 3 years of my life doing my best to make someone happy only for them to tell me they're unsure about me. anything is better than that.

Once again, it's not always about the woman. Throwing away true love just to keep up with social standards is shallow to say the least. There's nothing in the world that's worth giving your life to after 3 years.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

had to make an appearance eh?

I dont get tired

Oh really? Why?

Women have cooties