¤¤¤ How Soon Should She Give It Up? ¤¤¤

[BmoreGorilla]

That's not what we are talking about though...

We are talking about purposefully denying.

For instance:
-You've gotten to know him
-You don't think he's an aint shyt guy (otherwise you would have broken up)
-You are physically attracted tho him

For some people this can happen in a day, for others maybe even a month.

But w/e your time frame is, if you start denying sex after that because you feel that it will bring out better qualities in the man... you're lying to yourself.

At that point the woman is just playing games which is even worse

 

[151_Pr00f]

Maybe we should frame the question differently. What's the missing variable that compels you to give it up the first night vs make him wait.....

y'all choosin either way

 

[FreshFromATL]

I expect at maximum 2 weeks for sex to commence. Usually happens a lot sooner for me.

If I see you in person 3 times and no sex or hints of such occur, I'm moving on....

This, this, and this.

 

[FreshFromATL]

These are all the wrong answers. The answer is when your mission matches his. If you just want dikk. You can do that now.

But if you want a long term relationship, you gotta make decisions in the long term prospective. He need to seek the same. He needs to be smitten over you. You need to be the same. He needs to be your friend and vice versa.

You my nikka but c'mon cuz.

 

[Soundbwoy]

When the moment is right but I'm not fukking with chicks on that Steve Harvey 6 months plan

 

[Pineal Gland]

I think you and @Pineal Gland should explore all options

I'm not on @BlackPearl roster, can't even get a tryout

 

[Street Knowledge]

Does the man have options? Like does he have a roster of women on deck?

Cause dudes will "wait" on one girl while he's smashing other women

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Does the man have options? Like does he have a roster of women on deck?

Cause dudes will "wait" on one girl while he's smashing other women

The question is for men and what they feel is a good time frame.

 

[5n0man]

I know girls who told me about how they made dudes they were interested in wait while they were still fukking side nikkas, just so the dude they really want wouldn't think they were easy. I just don't trust these girls in 2016.

 

[Rawtid]

Even thorough dudes have a threshold for women's games.

Smh. It's not games. Dudes needs to stop fronting like they wouldn't make a decision to get serious without sex. You'll fukk a chick you know you will never be serious with so what's wrong with a chick waiting? She has nothing to lose and the risk is the same except she's not emotionally attached because of sex.

 

[dc007]

The question is for men and what they feel is a good time frame.

I know girls who told me about how they made dudes they were interested in wait while they were still fukking side nikkas, just so the dude they really want wouldn't think they were easy. I just don't trust these girls in 2016.

A lot of women do this, and it use to confuse me but I just don't try to understand it anymore

I don't think I've had anything happen with somebody who has made me wait to have sex. I think after the first few dates, and the first or second time you are alone, sex should happen. I don't really think about a time frame but thats just usually how it works for me.

If a woman is making you wait past then, she ain't really feeling you. All the "if you have sex too soon you a hoe" stuff is nonsense after HS

@Rawtid do you not enjoy sex

 

[SheWantTheD]

When he agrees to be exclusive or committed and his actions match. Until then, keep a dude just to have sex with on the side because that's what's he's doing if you're not giving it up.

Yup, cause we all doing that right. That's exactly how you end up never getting a dude to commit to you let alone a good man.

 

[Rawtid]

Yup, cause we all doing that right. That's exactly how you end up never getting a dude to commit to you let alone a good man.

Sex isn't going to determine if he wants to commit. Period. You don't have to fukk a dude to figure that out. Not fukking him makes it easier to move on when he show his true colors because you aren't giving it up.

 

[Rawtid]

A lot of women do this, and it use to confuse me but I just don't try to understand it anymore

I don't think I've had anything happen with somebody who has made me wait to have sex. I think after the first few dates, and the first or second time you are alone, sex should happen. I don't really think about a time frame but thats just usually how it works for me.

If a woman is making you wait past then, she ain't really feeling you. All the "if you have sex too soon you a hoe" stuff is nonsense after HS

@Rawtid do you not enjoy sex

It's not that I don't enjoy sex, but I know it's not a determining factor as to if a guy wants to be serious with you or not. Sex can create a very unhealthy emotional attachment so you should make sure at least the guy is showing some signs of being into you exclusively before you consider. At worst he will leave because y'all not fukking and so what if he does? Its easier to move forward when you haven't had sex with a guy.

 

[thoushallhustle]

Whenever the woman feels comfortable. me personally I need to know how his dikk and tongue game is before I get in too deep.