¤¤¤ How Soon Should She Give It Up? ¤¤¤

When should she start bumping uglies?

  • First nIght is alright

    Votes: 20 22.0%
  • A week makes me weak

    Votes: 4 4.4%
  • 2 weeks is best no stress

    Votes: 10 11.0%
  • Month or so is not a hoe

    Votes: 8 8.8%
  • 2 months is my fate, worth the wait

    Votes: 2 2.2%
  • More than 2 months it's not a front

    Votes: 3 3.3%
  • When the mood strikes is alright

    Votes: 44 48.4%

  • Total voters
    91

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It puts me on edge so I constantly walk around looking like a thug. Black women find thugs irresistable:jawalrus:

Man stop, they don't know :wow:
It makes your testosterone skyrocket, you get more aggressive, you receive pure inner swag :wow:

You just don't care at that point, it feels like cheating :wow:

But my answer: Date two/ three. You know within five minutes of meeting someone if you want to have sex with them or not, lets be real.

The rest of the time is getting to know them. But too many people aren't polarizing, instead they tiptoe around things and play nice.

If you are honest from the jump, she'll either hate you or love you :yeshrug:
 

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I'm not sure there is a "right" time tbh, although just to be safe I'm going to do the wait it out route from now on. In my shameful past I met a dude on Saturday, we went to a movie on Sunday, and he was in my bed Monday :mjcry: me and him dated and talked everyday for the entire year after that. He hit me up last week asking if I wanted to go chase Pokémon

My first boyfriend I talked to for a good 5 months before we did anything and we've been off and on for like the past 5 years. Then last month he stopped picking up my calls and ignored my texts

I honestly don't believe there's any rhyme or reason to when to do it and I think that if you guys truly like each other the relationship will work and if you're not compatible it won't work , regardless of how long u make him wait

That being said, since I know how judgemental men are about sex, I now just decide to play it safe and do the waiting thing.
 
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